I'm American and she is from Peru, she came here three years ago
She loves me and I love her,, so you would think that we would at least stay together for a whie but here is the problem
her family which are all illegal immigrants are ignorant towards Americans,, not all but some like her sister in law
this is her best friend, but she will tell my girlfriend bad things about me and the problems with stupid gringos, If I ask my girlfriend to come out with me,,she will have to tell the women, and she will always say,,,what with that stupid,,boring gringo
she and a few others are really trying to manipulate her into breaking up with me,,,,,Im tall and good looking,, so maybey it is becuase they are jealous I don't know,,but they have a lot of influence over her,,and it really bothers me
I brought it uo once to my girlfriend and she said that these are her best frinds and she takes what they say seriously
Is this a problem with a lot of latinas,,manipulation
2006-12-16 12:52:16 · 6 answers · asked by t-time d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 minutes ago
and jealousy,,, the sister in law has kids,,and I think she resents having to stay home all the time and not being able to meet other guys because she doesn't like father of her kids,,,dramai know i JUST NEED HELP TO get around this if I can
2006-12-16 12:52:31 · update #1
she says american not gringo actually
2006-12-16 12:56:24 · update #2
im willing to conform completley to the peruvian culture so that is not an issue
2006-12-16 13:03:04 · update #3
Sooooooooooooo
2006-12-16 12:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by chocolate~bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem you seem to be facing would be those of culture, mistrust of outsiders and fear of the authorities. They have strength and protection if they stay within their own community. They are afraid of what you could do to them if you have a bad break-up up with her. They are afraid that if you get married then their children will not be brought up in their culture (just because they came to America does not mean that the Peruvian culture is not still a part of their identity). If you can be understanding of these limitations, then you can have a relationship, but if not, then end it while you can do it amicably - perhaps you can save a friendship.
2006-12-16 13:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by funwithu_007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mexicans say gringo, not Peruvians, that's wired lol
2006-12-16 12:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by crazyinsane0000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noooo......nooo....noooo you see this is something you have to live with..lol...us Latin's lloovvee drama you have to look past that...think about it you love this girl so does her family. just remember it her that you love not everyone related... this is the norm trust me they'll do it to you even if you were from Peru
2006-12-16 13:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by uwhat1001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this girl loves you, she will go against what they say and stick up for you.
2006-12-16 12:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
W0OW//IM SORRY 2 HEAR THATTTTT...
HOPE THINGS WORK OUT HUNS
2006-12-16 12:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋