What I don't understand is why women complain that men are players, when men have to have the appeal of having other women to choose from for him to seam desirable to begin with.
Will a women date somebody who isn't seeing a bunch of women, chances are no. This is because women want to date the guy who has a lot of women, so that she can think "yeah look at me I tamed him blah blah" but in reality he is going to play you.
Most women know this, but still complain, which is I why I say do women realize that you make us men into players to begin with?
2006-12-16 12:50:51 · 11 answers · asked by crazyinsane0000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow you are waaay mis informed. we dont like men that have alot of women to choose from because thats means that their focus wont be on just one woman. we dont think its "desirable" because it shows that you dont want to be with one person.
and you dont HAVE to be a player to seem attractive, you just want to play the field. dont blame women for your lack of morals
2006-12-16 12:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by nonyerbusiness 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well why in the world should a woman be interested in a guy who didn't attract other women? I would think that would be a red flag to stay away from him. Women like the "idea" of other women liking their man, but the truth is they want him all to themselves. The problem is that you men want to blame someone else for your inability to be monogamous. Take some responsibility for your own actions and quit blaming the women.
2006-12-16 13:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by tiny girl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nice try. Most normal women have no idea the dudes a 'playa' until after she is emotionally involved, then he says things like "you knew what I was about".
I do not want to tame a man, screw that, if he is an animal, he can stay in the zoo and keep chasing tail all he wants.
That's like a woman saying men are what makes her a sleaze. Everybody is responsible for there own actions. If you are a jackass, your the only one you can blame. Sorry.
But thanks for pointing out how silly men think. :)
2006-12-16 13:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by Hatem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well did u know men give us the image of u being players when ur with ur boys bragging bout a gurl u was just with last nite then hve the nerve to try to talk to another at the same time so u see we wouldn't be making a player out of u we'll just be clarifying wat u already made clear all on ur own so don't even go there.
2006-12-16 12:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We can both be pretty unfair to eachother as genders. I totally see your point, though. Just remember that we can be just as unreasonable as they can be. Women and men both complain about a lot of crazy stuff.
2006-12-16 13:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm unattracted to men with a lot of women. Man whores are filthy. Quit making excuses for being a whore.
2006-12-16 12:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your such aguy.... look at it rom a different point of view. it depends on the situation also. dont blame woman. and we wont blame you. Personally, i think all genders are responsible....
and your about to get a LOT of angry woman posting here...
2006-12-16 12:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt want a guy who has a lot of women. if he is a player, hes not my type.
its not our fault buddy!
2006-12-16 13:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we may have driven you to become a player, but remember it was you that let us influnce u!!
which is another reason why we women are so irrestible!
2006-12-16 12:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by SaDiE 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
haha... dont worry yourself trying to figure out women's logic; I realized a while back women are simply stupid
2006-12-16 13:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by Airtight 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋