My best friend's boyfriend keeps hitting on me. He treats her very well, but when she's not around he keeps on flirting with me. He started this one day after my friend officially introduced him to me as her boyfriend. Later that day, I say him at the mall and he came over to say hi. We talked nicely and politely for a while but as I walked away he said "I'll call you." and slapped me one the butt! He continues this offensive behavior when my friend is not around. I don't wan to have a relationship with him because my friend really likes him and this girl is like sister to me so I can't do anything that would hurt her. Also, I already have a boyfriend who is very protective. Should I confront my friend's boyfriend or tell my friend or tell my friend? Help!
2006-12-16 11:47:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should have told that guy something when he first put his hands on you - that's not cool. you should confront the dude in front of your "sister-like" friend and ur own b/f all at the same time. Laying that all on the table will kill all that. your friend deserves someone that's not gonna hit on her friends behind her back. what a loser, that guy. ur b/f should kick his *** too - hitting on your booty like that. i would have lost it for sure.
2006-12-16 12:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by dip_n_cecilia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its normal for some guys to be playful and flity and they dont notice they are offending anybody, so before you accuse him of coming onto you you should let him know how you want him to treat you. Like if he always makes comments about you and him together when ur boy isnt around make a 'joke' that ur boy duznt like sharing his girl. if he moves in a little close for ur liking, step back and say 'its ok i can hear u from hear, if he duz touch u then take his hand from your body and tell him to stay out of ur space, or for any of that u can just walk over and put ur arm round ur boy and show him that ur loyalties lye here with this guy, he will stop seeing u as an easy target. as for ur friend u should subtly let her know what is going on with him
2006-12-16 21:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it would be better if you confront her boyfriend...and when you do, confront him GOOD. If it doesn't work then tell your friend, but before you tell her, tell her that you don't mean to make her mad/sad but you want to be honest with her because she's your best friend.
Good luck.
2006-12-16 19:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by Alterna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him first, then tell your friend and if you're friends at all she will believe you and let her do what she wants from there. After that its really her decision.
Good luck, sweetie
2006-12-16 20:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop flirting with u cause its uncomfortable or somthing if he keeps doing it hav sum1 tabe it happening then confront ur friend and tell ur boyfriend at the same time, but if ur friends date tries to hurt u tell ur boyfriend, parents, and ur friend right away
2006-12-16 19:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Specter7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, any boy/man who puts his hands on you w/o your say-so needs to feel the full extent of your wrath. He is being disrespect full to you and your friend. Set him straight.
2006-12-16 19:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by nin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop. Remind him that she is your best friend, but if he keeps giving you unwanted attention you will do something about it.
2006-12-16 21:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by funwithu_007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can tell her, but odds are she won't believe you. So, sleep with him and take pictures.
2006-12-16 19:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she has yahoo you should forward this question to her...
2006-12-16 19:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋