I'm trying to write a letter to a girl, and I'll be honest about my feeling and i'm gonna let her know how I feel. But what concerns me is that she is kinda shy, and I don't want to leave too much of strong emotions, since we're only on the beginning of our relationship. So...what should I write? Should I tell her I like her? Would it be awkward if I tell her I love her? plz help!
2006-12-16 10:52:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about " I really value our friendship however my feelings towards you are getting stronger, i feel like i'd like to be more than friends with you. I will totally understand if you do not feel the same for me and really want us to stay friends." Keep it simple like that and who knows!!! She will much prefer a letter rather than telling her outright as where she is shy she won't feel so much pressure that she has to say yes. Hope this helps you. Good luck.
2006-12-16 11:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Writing a letter is one of the worst ideas you can do. Only in the movies does a girls read a letter and fall in love. You have to take action.
But sadly if you have made up your mind to write a letter no one can talk you out of it. So the only advise that I can give you is, to keep it short. Most guys like you take this time to spill all their deepest feelings. Guess what she doesn't care about your feelings for her, she only cares about her feeling for you, so you want her to want you, not let her know how much you want her. Keep it short.
Be cute, be flirty, be funny and be short. The letter should be an ice breaker that makes her laugh and just start thinking "hmm... I wounder what this guy is really about?" it will not make her fall in love with you, but it could pave the way for you to do it.
Good Luck.
2006-12-16 10:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen man I did that before and I don't advice you to write her a letter. When I sent that girl a message telling her how I feel she did not reply then she acted normaly. I did know whether she read the message or not which was the stupidist thing that could ever happen then I had to ho ask her whether she read the message or not which is so stupid because if yes then she neglected it on purpose and if no then I am telling her in the worst way. My advice is that you tell your feelings to her face to face when you are alone but smooth it to her do not go and tell her I love you or something like that just tell her how that you have fun with her and see how she responds. Best of luck.
2006-12-16 11:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Bondok 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letters are cool, and if you write it right it should work. However, once you put it on paper it's out there for the entire world to see. Do you know for sure she will be the only one reading that letter? You might want to figure that out. But, I'm a girl so I know that if a guy did something really romantic I'd probably give him a chance. Maybe drop flowers by her house( signed from your secret admirer) and chocolate, then finally reveal that it was you leaving her the gifts. Just remember don't be to demanding, us girls hate that......
2006-12-16 11:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her you love her because it isn't true. You couldn't possibly love someone you've never even dated. Just tell her you like her and would like to take her out to dinner or something. A movie is a bad idea for the first date because you can't talk. If she says yes to one date, when it is over, ask her if she would like to see you again. It really isn't all that hard. If she says no, don't take it personal. Either you are her cup of tea or you are not, but if not, it's not really her fault. People feel what they feel.
2006-12-16 11:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by truthseeker221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't know that you like then tell her! If you've only been dating for a couple weeks or less then I would wait to tell her that you love her. I wouldn't come out and be so brazen about it but that's your decision. I would tell her that I like her when you see her next. I believe that if you are face to face with your partner and tell them something personal or something that involves feelings then they know that your telling her something that came from the heart. Don't tell her through a note or letter, tell her face to face so you can see what her reaction is to it.
2006-12-16 10:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by CompWiz56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 09:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say if you love her if you just started the relationship.. wait till that for later.
write what you feel but try not to come on too strong, dont express all of your feelings in this one letter. write that you like.. like her and wanna take her out on a special date or soemthing.
goodluck.
2006-12-16 10:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by tortl :) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest but not too fast forward. Give her a Christmas Card for starters.
Let nature do the rest
2006-12-16 10:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't write a love letter to her. you should just tell her that you like her the old fashoined way.
2006-12-16 10:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋