She broke up with me about 2 weeks ago. I believe the best way to get her back is act like I am ok with her decision and just move on with life. Then in a month or so ask her if she wants to hang out and get a cup of coffee. When out for coffee I need not bring up the passed. Instead just talk casual. "What have you been up to?" "How are you?" AND so on.
I believe this is the best way to handle things. What about you?
2006-12-16 10:48:22 · 15 answers · asked by skillzdatkillzz420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's the perfect way to handle things. Just treat her like a friend and try to get to know her all over again. Your approach sounds very mature. Don't mention that you want her back until she mentions it first. If she never seems like she wants to get back with you than move on with your life. During this time you are free to date other girls.
2006-12-16 10:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jo K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 15:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by Jerome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman, I think that's a terrible way of doing it. I mean, obviously I know next to nothing about your situation and what you're suggesting really could be the best way to go about it, but if she were me or one of my friends, I don't think that'd be the best way to do it at all. She should know you really want to get back together with her. Call her or show up at her house or send her some candies and a heartfelt note. Probably shouldn't say anything over the internet. But if you wait that long and then just suggest coffee, she's likely to get confused about your intentions more than anything else. And by that time she'll be starting to get over you, and if you enter into the picture again it'll just be emotional upheaval all over again. Do it now, that's what I say.
2006-12-16 10:52:47 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not "get" her to speak in confidence you. She will open up if she feels secure - however sounds to me such as you men have a few disorders which are complicating your courting. The recommendation I might provide is - do not be one million) too determined, or two) too pushy. Just be your self, have a well time together with her - however do not be in all places her in any respect. OK, she has this loopy notion that you just best wish her for intercourse; good, do not deliver up intercourse in any respect, preserve your arms to your self, and benefit from the dialog. I'm now not rather certain what her drawback is - I do not get it how can a woman be with anyone for 2 years, and be satisfied that this character is best together with her for the reason that of intercourse; that is simply foolish. It sounds to me like she, herself, does not understand what she desires - and it may be type of a unsafe concern for you, as you would get your middle damaged very quite simply. Just watch out, good enough. Good good fortune.
2016-09-03 17:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by swindell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-09-28 04:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by Abe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just act like everythings ok then ask out your ex- girlfriend's friend out. Bring the friend flowers and candies and chocolate. Try and make your ex-girlfriend jealous of her friend.
2006-12-16 10:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by pirate_girll13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her. The best revenge is to have a good life without her.
2006-12-16 10:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i definitly would not bring up the past, keep it positive, never beg just makes u look weak.but don't wait so long, as someone else may steal your spot.
2006-12-16 10:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I have to say about that is; Remember she is your ex for a reason.
Move on to bigger & better things.
2006-12-16 10:51:46 · answer #9 · answered by ancestorhorse 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a better man. If she doesn't realize the errors of her ways then it's better if she doesn't come back.
2006-12-16 10:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by NiCole Y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋