I have a guy from another town. But theres this guy from my school who asked me to go out wit him. what should i do????? The guy from my school is SO SO SO FINE!!!!!!!!
2006-12-16 10:46:09 · 33 answers · asked by grismar d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, u aint married to either one of them, so just play the field if u like to see who is the best man.
If u made a commitment to your guy, either break it or be true.
2006-12-16 10:48:14 · answer #1 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are the only one who can decide if it is OK to cheat because you are the only one who has to look at you in the mirror. I understand the guy in school is fine but I'm wondering what your main guy does or has that makes you stay with him? Wouldn't it be easier to just tell him your not ready for a relationship and you want to go out with other people? Good luck with that.
2006-12-16 10:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by tpbthigb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No! Cheating is never the right thing to do! Your going to have to choose which guy is right for you! And don't go just on looks! No matter how fine a guy is you want someone who has a personality! Or at least part of one! Good Luck! and i hope you get yourself the right guy!
2006-12-16 10:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by hippie_at_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how serious you are with the guy from out of town. If you are using the "L" word and have gotten intimate, then yes it would be wrong.
If you haven't done either, then go for it. It would not be wrong.
If you haven't used the "L" word, but have gotten intimate, then you need to evaluate how much the two of you talk about the future etc... If you want to go out with the other guy under these circumstances, then break it off. You are not ready to be in that relationship if you are thinking of someone else.
If you have used the "L" word and you haven't gotten intimate, then you still need to break it off before going for the other guy.
2006-12-16 10:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by Barbara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A) Only if you plan on him breaking up with you or never trusting you again.
B) Only if he cheated on you ... but in that case, you should have broken up with him when it happened.
C) If you even have to think about it than no you shouldn't because you obviously care about your boyfriend.
D) If you do decide to cheat, be honest with your guy and break it off because if you do end up going out with this new guy and he knows or finds out you're cheating on some other guy than he can hold it over your head FOREVER.
2006-12-16 10:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the guy from school and see which guys u really like after that. It not really cheating on ur guy but just wanting to see which guys is right for u.
2006-12-16 10:49:29 · answer #6 · answered by Kristy Le 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it's not ok, like jack said, would you want one of them to cheat on you? What you should do is you should figure out which guy means more to you and decide which one you're truly interested in and let the one guy down easy. Don't cheat on him and go out with the other guy because juggling two people is terrible and hurts everyone in the situation and you will end up alone. Figure out which one is the one you like most and tell the other one that it's not working out before you start anything or else you risk losing them both.
2006-12-16 10:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by hey hows it goin 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well the guy from the other guy in a nother town do u have major feelings 4 him? if u dont break it off so u wont feel so gillty,but if u have feeling for him then say no to the guy who asked u out.
2006-12-16 10:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by caligurllovya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if you want the guy from your school then break up with the other guy. You shouldn't date someone out of town if you know you can't handle it. You look pretty shallow right now sweety! And to ask if you should just means you want to!
Krazy Libra
2006-12-16 10:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
mmmm know you are confuse but think FIRST do you think your boyfriend deserves that kind of things.Ask yourself that.Also ask yourself Do u love your boyfriend like really really ??? Do u think that if you break up with your boyfriend to be with the guy from the school do you think that your relationship with him( the guy from the school) will be better.... follow this quote is my favorite
" don't leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like might leave you for the one they love"
But girl if you like the guy from the school just leave your boyfriend and that's all n if you have something with him just make sure your boyfriend is far away from you like 50 miles lol ;) good luck. but still i don't recommend to cheat on your man
2006-12-16 11:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by Jolie Vu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dats no reazn 2 cheat it dont matter if hez the finest boy alive
if u wanna go out wit dis guy u have to break up wit da otha one its only fair and much better then cheatin
2006-12-16 10:49:13 · answer #11 · answered by BOOM, roasted. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋