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he's my dad
i don't live with him
he stopped picking me up every weekend
his phone is cut off
he ignores all my important e-mails and instead of e-mailing me important stuff he always sends me junk mail

2006-12-16 10:18:07 · 6 answers · asked by chris j 1 in Family & Relationships Family

6 answers

That's too bad. You deserve better than that.
I would go over to his house and talk to him. Make it clear how you feel. Maybe your mom can help with what you should say to him.
Some parents are good parents, some parents are more like friends than parents, some are just bad parents. Don't give up if you think it's worth it. He will regret what he's doing to you someday when you have children of your own and he has grandchildren. So, try to fix your relationship with him NOW. Then hopefully later on it will be better. Good luck.

2006-12-16 11:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0 0

Im actually going through an identity/women crisis. Ive been cutting off contact from women personally and few other people. Until all this realization sinks in Ill stop acting this way. For me, I doubt that I will turn back to the way I was but I will begin to talk to people. Theres pretty much nothing you can do. Hes probably shutting you out from his problems because he might not think you really care to listen. That or you and the other people might be the problem. Trust me, Im goin through so much sh*t right now and my attitude is completely changed and when people ask me whats wrong I begin to tell them and they really dont give a sh*t. Its like why the hell did you ask anyway? So when people ask me whats wrong I just say nothing. Im great. You could probably talk to his mom if you really think its getting out of control. Dont be surprised if his mom tells you shes been shut out as well.

2016-05-23 00:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

He has your number, home address, and your email. Make it clear how you feel and that you are waiting for him to contact you but will no longer keep jumping through hoops. That is all you can do. I know it is hard because he is your dad and you want a relationship with him. But, relationships are two sided....
My mom was the same way when I was younger. You will figure it out. It is hurtful..but..I am sure there are other people around you who care about you.

2006-12-16 10:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by clilly_56 2 · 0 0

Sounds like he's shifted from the role of parent to child. Most people don't have to deal with that until their parents are like 90. I feel bad for you that you're forced to deal with it at such a young age.

There's no way to fix it. Just take on your new role. You are the parent he is the child. Think of how a normal parent would talk to a child and email him that stuff. Tell him how wonderful things are but don't involve him in grown-up conversations because it's just too much for him. Expect him to be selfish because that's just how children are at that stage of development.

2006-12-16 10:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

try going to his house or work and talk to him. ask your mom to help you . good luck

2006-12-16 10:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0 0

go to his house or go to his work if you know where it is. and talk to him. don't give up.

2006-12-16 10:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0 0

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