I'm a junior in high school, I've never been on a date before and I'm going to a movie with this girl. Can you give me some advice like do I pay for her and do you talk during the movie and stuff like that?
2006-12-16 10:14:19 · 30 answers · asked by mikej10304 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My advise? Watch the movie. If you asked her to the movie, offer to pay her way.
2006-12-16 10:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Prying Pandora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay after reading all the homosexual answers that seem to have been written from 40 year olds,
1. Go together to buy the tickets and see if she has brought her own money (dont ask though)
2. If not or if you cant tell then pay for her.
3. ALWAYS talk during the movie otherwise it will be an awkward silence and she will think your not interested or shy.
4. Dont worry about what others will think of your talking or about anything
5. Attempt looking at her for only a quick glimpse every now and again
6. If she ever turns and looks at you whilst you are looking at her, hold her gaze and then slowly kiss her
7. Dont be shy about kissing (most likely she will be too so just go for it)
8. Keep talking after the kiss to make it seem casual and keep her relaxed (this will also lift her self esteem and make her think she is a good kisser)
9. If you want and think shes up for it do some more kissing during the movie
10. When leaving tell her you had a great time and would like to do it again (But dont ask for a specific date/time to meet up, do that when you see her next/call her because you could seem desperate)
Hope that helps
2006-12-16 18:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by ya_face_sux 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Offer to pay for her... if she insists on paying her own, let her. Some women would rather pay their own way, but most still like it when the guy offers to pay. Don't talk during the movie. You might put your arm around her if she seems open to it. Talk after the movie. If you're doing a movie as a first date, it's a good idea to plan to go our for a soda or something afterward. Dates should include talking so you can get to know each other. It's hard to get to know each other when Godzilla's yakkin it up on the screen. Just be yourself. She already thinks enough of you to accept the date... this is a good sign! Good luck!
2006-12-16 18:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by waywrdsun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, act like your normal self, like what you do with friends. Be polite, by offering to pay. Have fun seeing the movie, laugh together, talk about it after it's over. The more normal you act, the more you'll attract girls, instead of trying to act like you're in a date. The first part of a relationship is being good friends. Then ull gradually know what to do. That's the best way to go. If you want to be a little more romantic, find out about her interests from her friends, maybe plan more creative dates like doing an activity you both like, etc. Never show it, if you want to go faster, since it might scare girls, like doing things like holding hands, etc. Most girls are sensitive and will want to go slow. That's why the friend thing I said before, works. Good luck!
2006-12-16 18:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by desigal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should always pay for a girl when you out to the movies (or anywhere) and i you should play it smooth, like watch the movie and slowly go for her hand or maybe put your arm around her and if that goes well from there then wait a couple of min. like (5-10) then make your next move but only if you feel comfortable and you think she does too. because you don't want to freak her out if she doesn't feel ready for the next move, plus you never know she might make a move on you. well good luck on you date.
oh and don't pic a movie where there's going to be a lot of kids and if you can let her pick the movie
2006-12-16 18:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by clair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would be proper to pay for her to see the movie. I might suggest seeing a very good horror movie that would give her reason to hold on to you and get cozy with her. You can whisper and smile at each other a bit but not to the distraction of other movie patrons. If time allows perhaps you could talk about the movie afterwords or at least on the phone . Ask her questions about herself and be a good listener also . Good luck and enjoy yourself !
2006-12-16 18:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, pay for the movie.
No, don't talk during the movie. You can hold her hand though.
Other movie goers will not be impressed. If you talk while they're trying to watch.
You can talk after the movie. Go to a cafe, or where ever and sit down to chat.
2006-12-16 18:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by eddie_schaap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't talk during the movie people will get upset. Yeah you can pay for her it would be nice.Glance at her to see if she's glancing at you during the movie, but don't make it all obvious. If she is she may want a kiss. Buy popcorn and "accidentally" stick your hand in at the same time she does.
2006-12-16 18:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by So'sYerFace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay for her ticket, and offer her a snack (she will probably refuse). Don't talk during the movie, its annoying, but if something funny or outrageous happens, its OK to look over at her and make eye contact to show her that you're still paying attention to her although you're both watching the movie. Its also ok to reach for her hand (especially if its a romance/suspense/or horror), but don't make too much physical contact if its your first date.
Good luck and don't be nervous!
2006-12-16 18:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
def pay for her... hold her hand throughout the whole night even if you think your hand is sweaty... lol... dont talk during the movie.. but any time you get disinterested in the movie... look at her... until she looks at you then look back at the screen keep doing that until like half way into the movie then kiss her. you will know if she wants to or not. good luck man ;)
2006-12-16 18:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear you,
I'm a girl and I know exactly what girls want when they go to a movie! Pay for the girl when the movie is over ask her if she enjoyed it and make sure you buy her popcorn and candy and soda if there is soda get her Coke girls love Coke! Be sure to walk her in and out of the movie theater!
From Dogluver698
2006-12-16 18:17:27 · answer #11 · answered by DogLuver698 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋