i am just 15 years old but for a year and a half i have simply worshipped this teacher at my school...nobody else even likes him but i adore him. He knows i like him and i always catch him looking at me intensely...what do i do? i want to be with him so much but he is 33 and i am just 15...help!!!!!
2006-12-16 10:06:41 · 12 answers · asked by iloveadrian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait...he does not teach me for anything...the only time i see him is in the corridors
2006-12-16 11:14:12 · update #1
I know you don't want to her it but you are jail bait!!!! Unless he wants to go to jail, he probably will not react to your stares. Just chalk it up to your first crush and move on. I know it's hard but your young and will look back at this and laugh!
2006-12-16 10:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by JAD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you are going to really stir something up. He is way too old for you. Plus, he is your teacher. You need to change classes and forget about him. And if he tries to pursue you, you need to back away. I don't think you should take him looking at you as a sign of love or lust. If that is the way he feels about you, then he is a sicko. No man that age would want a young girl like you for anything serious. You are still a child, no matter if you disagree with me or not. You need to stop now and think of all the people you would be hurting if anything were to happen between you and your teacher. Maybe one day when you are older, like say, when you are done with college and you do meet him again, you can pursue a relationship with him. By then you will be older and you will be old enough to make wiser decisions. Please don't do anything stupid.
2006-12-16 18:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by Meuy V 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. I used to really like my Teacher too..but then I found out he had a girlfriend so I got over him xD. I know how you feel though, it's really hard to concentrate in class and you always stare at him and when he looks at you, you think it's cause he likes you, but hey, teacher's have to make eye contact with the pupils anyway...
My advice is, try not to do anything stupid. If you start a relationship with this guy, it could ruin his career and mess up his life. I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but I think you should try and find someone who's within your age range, this guy is more than double your age. =/
Hope this helps you and good luck xx
2006-12-16 18:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by Hitomi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to let him go. Sooner or later you might loose focus on you school work and whats most important in life. Having crushes is okay, but they might get to serious and it seems as if you are only 15 dating a 33 year old, bad things might happen. If you want a great career to wake up to you might not want to get upsessed.
2006-12-16 18:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by *Gulielmo Marconi* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh this needs to be nipped in the bud and quickly. find someone your own age cause if he is giving you the "look"... man you just dont want the trouble and heartache thats sure to follow. think about this: he can lose his job, if he is married well he wont be for long. and thats just some of his problems. what about yours? if you persue and he responds you will get the absolute worst reputation you will ever have. then there is the potential unwanted baby. look do yourself a favor let this infatuation die. I knew of a girl when I was in High school that persued a teacher. he responded and they got caught. this sort of thing destroys lives
2006-12-16 18:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by molly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) u r too young 2 dis teacher
2) teachers aren't allowed 2 go out wit school children
3) he'll probably take advantage of u bcoz of the age difference n his position
4) do u fancy him or u adore him?
2006-12-16 18:11:56 · answer #6 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can daydream and practice writing your first name with his last name, but that's it. It's totally normal to fantasize about an older man, but you cannot flirt with him. Your teacher is not interested in a romantic or sexual realationship with you. If he gives you any suggestion that he is, you should report him.
2006-12-16 18:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by The Squish 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry its not gonna work out....if you do anything wrong eberyone is gonna make fun of you and your life will be ruined and your teacher will definately go to jail...you dont want that do you?
2006-12-17 13:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! I can see another court case here, HEADLINE teacher bangs 15 year old
2006-12-16 18:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by Ian 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it - take another subject!
2006-12-16 18:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by Home_educator 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋