My boyfriend gets to graduate high school early to start college in January because he plays football. When I'm graduate the school I'm going to is in a totally different state.....
2006-12-16 09:57:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No they don't. I thought they did.. and they could. But it mostly seems like they don't no matter hwo hard you try. I had a long distance relationship for 6 monthes!!!! he would even fly and come and visit me... But you end up relying on the phone way to much and you meet new people, new friends. new obligations and they eventually seem like different people. Granted things might work out but you both have to be willin gto really really really make it work. any doubt and its done for. Good luck. You can try if you want. It never hurt to try.
2006-12-16 10:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by LIZ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationship is totally hard. There is a great sacrifice involve in it. Most of the time it doesn't work but there are times that it does. If you two are sure about your feelings to each other, then being apart will not be a problem.
Set the bird free, if it comes back to you then you are meant to be. Constant communciation will be the tool for successful long distance relationship, when I say it's constant it means that even when your busy or tired, you need to at least call him or email him. Self-control is another factor. Be strong and have faith with each other.
Good luck.
2006-12-16 18:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by Pinoy in Amerika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does have a chance of working out, but you are too young to deal with that kind of relationship yet. Get out and meet more people and experience more things that you may not be able to do with an "absentee boyfriend" around (within reason, of course). BOTH of you need to take some time to make a well-informed decision about whether a life together is what is really best for you.
2006-12-18 02:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by whitextrashxprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is one of the hardest things in life to deal with and i have had a few of my own long distance relationships never work out it is easy to stay friends but you both will have needs the other can't help you with so i would start backing off now and let the heart lead you
2006-12-16 18:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by yum_two 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on you guys. If you guys try hard to make it work it will. It is very difficult for long distance relationships to work, but if you two work on it than it will work. My husband is in Korea for the army and i am in California, It is very difficult some times but we work hard at it. Every relationship takes work but some times you have to work overtime on it. Don't give up on the relationship and above all have faith and trust in him.
2006-12-16 18:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are basically 2 answers
1--absence makes the heart grow fonder
2--out of sight, out of mind
it takes a very strong bond for it to work. Best wishes!!
2006-12-16 18:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by winkcat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They can but it takes effort and dedication
and because its a BOY in COLLEGE i wouldnt get your hopes up
maybe an open relationship???
2006-12-16 18:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by Micky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time they don't work but some times if u guys are willing they do
2006-12-16 18:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea they do if both ppl r committed. im in 1 right now and its fine. we talk almost everyday and see each other on the weekends
2006-12-16 18:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by nickizzle4rizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases it doesn't but then again each case is different.
2006-12-16 18:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋