A guy I met online whom I was supposed to meet in person next month is sending sexy messages to a friend of mine.
This guy knows my family in real life and my family told me he seems like a great guy. (very handsome, rich, smart)
Problem is I just found out that he has been sending a wild friend of mine IMs asking her to meet with him for quickie sex in the middle of the night.
Tells her how he is looking at porn and wants someone warm to be 'inside' of naturally without protection.
He didnt know that she knew me and vice versa.
He acts so polite and respectful towards me.
Should I stop contact with him, overlook his behavior or confront him ?
2006-12-16 09:47:51 · 10 answers · asked by I♥agoodhug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants to have the nice, ladylike, respectable girlfriend (you) and the hot dirty cheap sex slut (your wild friend) - in other words he wants to have his cake and eat it too!!
And apparently he doesn't care about unwanted pregnancies or STDs either!
Dump this idiot, ASAP! And tell him WHY you're dumping him!
2006-12-16 09:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that he's not being too honest with you. He knows how to play the game, and it seems that it may be working on you. Just because he's rich, handsome and smart doesn't mean that he'll treat you right, or that you'll be happy with him. Now I know that you and him aren't committed to each other, so I'll give him that. Now if he meets your wild friend, and she gives him a disease, where does that leave you? Think about all of this, and don't make any quick decisions. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-16 09:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i imagine you're in an exciting situation. It feels like you're pleased with the guy you're seeing---yet you do note of there is a few pink flags stemming from this. I say wait it out and word if it he type of settles down with it, as a guy--I wouldnt assume that. What i'd do if I were you is to target to perpetuate as many circumstances as conceivable the position you'll not be able to have sex--- for example, set dinner dates with yours or his father and mom and type of hint to him that it must be disrespectful (inspite of in case you do not imagine this is going to likely be) in case you 2 were to hook up even in the subsequent room as yours or his persons.... that ought to possible infer that you're in truth in this for the lengthy haul and also you want more desirable to this courting than only sex....which i can easily understand. also it would not harm in case you do a minimum of hint to the contact base with him on how he says you adult males turning out to be. for sure he's into you, yet is he one in all those adult males (I do a similar) that still likes to look (no longer date/contact) different women , even at the same time as he's with someone? Has that ever been a issue? Take my suggestion, e book events the position you 2 can keep the most concentration off of sex.....and word how he handles it..... Then go from there. reliable success....
2016-10-18 09:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guys a waste of your time, just shine him on and be grateful that your friend told you. Iif he should happen to call you, tell him you know he's a player and your through.
2006-12-16 09:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ew?
Well, I think you might have to tell him that you are friends with the girl he's trying to have sex with.
Otherwise, he'll be a 2-face to everyone...you and your friend...
2006-12-16 09:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by Onyx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's a pimp. he finds the way to get a girl and goes the right route. he figured the way to get in your pants is the nice/polite approach. he's prob messing with 20 girls right now, stop talking to him.
2006-12-16 09:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like Vinnie said, you're the "nice girl". He wants his cake and eat it to. I would confront him and if you don't like his answer, dump him.
2006-12-18 15:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i will say is run girl and don't look back you will be another score in his book is all another piece of tail he poked just run
2006-12-16 09:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by yum_two 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no just leave the situation alone
2006-12-16 09:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by Tia M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what u feel and think is better for u..!
2006-12-16 09:50:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋