my ex gf was a sex crazy woman ...we broke up a last month , but I still love and miss her in my life ...she left me for another guy ...I sometimes, imagine her giving some great sex to her new boyfriend..and sometimes, it's painful to me to think about her doing those things to the other guy ...I can't disconnect from her, we managed to stay friends after the breakup , we sometimes chat on msn on friendship pretexte, telling me about her life now , she seems to be happy with her new boyfriend ...I felt like a loser, that she doesn't love me anymore ..those great sex times, she used to give me , come in my head sometimes, and I imagine that now it's her new boyfriend turn to have this now ..it sometimes makes me crazy ..I am still jaleous of her, but I know that is non sense, but , I can't tell you what I feel inside, cause I loved that girl so much ...!! have you ever been in that situation after a breakup ? what do you think I should do ?
2006-12-16 09:41:45 · 11 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to take a deep breath. Have you tried moving on with your life and seeing what else is out there? if she won't take you back and is happy with her new man, you should see if anyone else will give you the same as she did. you can't spend your whole life dwelling on her, you'll miss out on the world.
2006-12-16 09:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman that has been in the same position and basically I still am. This is gonna sound crazy but I feel like that about my 1st love and we were together 10yrs ago in middle school. We still keep in touch, but both of us have families of our own now. I don't know what to say to you, but I do know one thing; you can't let her see the jealousy because she may feel threatened by that and will stop talking to you all together. Hold on to the friendship that you do have because that's better than never talking to her at all considering how much she meant to you. Good luck.
2006-12-16 09:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by iLuVMyFaMiLy:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay friends with her the best you can, but start dating other peaople...then tell her about YOUR new life. Good luck, and remember..there are many fish in the sea. Just because you loved her doesn't mean you can't fall in love even more with someone else. We all have been where you are, and I know you don't feel good right now, but things will get better if you let them and move on like she did
2006-12-16 09:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by BUTTERCUP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean why are you scared thus far him? If he's treating you suitable and he's exhibiting no signs and warning signs that he's going to be adverse to you, then in simple terms recover from it! and in step with probability it relatively is on the grounds which you're dating somebody new. on the grounds which you're in the rebound era... perhaps you're afraid that he will do the comparable ingredient that your ex did.. yet it relatively is why you need to take a raffle and in simple terms suck it up! The worst ingredient is which you probably did no longer attempt somebody new. And yet another ingredient is you jumped onto yet another practice after each and every week? perhaps the injuries have not healed thoroughly yet. i could nonetheless date him, yet i would not be finished fledged yet by using fact it relatively is shifting kinda rapid, even nonetheless you men are hitting it off nicely. supply your self area and time removed from him adequate which you sense which you're in this with a sparkling techniques and concentration. do no longer circulate into yet another concern consisting of your luggage. go away your previous luggage on the door and are available in empty headed and surpassed for a sparkling one. good luck.
2016-10-15 02:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion to you is to move on.
I had this very same experience, and I was devastated. It bothered me a lot because in the first place I couldn't imagine what I had done to deserve getting dumped.
The truth of the matter is, you will always remember, that is something that never change. But my friend, life does go on, in spite of your misery.
There are others out there. Seek them out. They never will come close to this one in many respects, but they will excel in other areas, and that will help compensate for your loss.
2006-12-16 09:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by Gnome 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah and it sucks big time! The only thing I can tell you is that eventually it will get easier. I will give one little peice of advice. If you distance yourself from her, you might find it easier to deal with being without her. Also, did you ever stop to think she is telling you how fabulous her new life is to make you jealous? Hate to sound like a downer but it is always a possiblitity. Seriously, just distance yourself from her. And if she asks why, tell her the truth.
2006-12-16 09:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Julie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a way to get her back (email thehairygoose@hotmail.com)
But she doesn't sound like a good longterm deal. She sounds more like a ho. I would never marry a girl like this, I would just use her for the sex (if that's what you want, it can be arranged with her - you guys can be sex friends/buddies).
But I would also be worried about the possibly of contracting STD's from this girl (its a big possibility).
2006-12-16 09:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, time heals all wounds.
Until then...get drunk a lot and have meaningless sex with as many women as you can.
2006-12-16 09:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better to do a clean break and not know what she is doing.
2006-12-16 09:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone to replace her and forget about her .
2006-12-16 09:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋