Iam in love with a workaholic-------I know he loves me but I am so lonely in the relationship. Help
2006-12-16 09:14:28 · 10 answers · asked by Lee M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The essence of relationship is communication. He may not be aware of the situation and thinks that his working for is okay with. Have you open up to him lately yet? You both need to talk and compromise tthings. You can make up with your quality time during weekends or his dayoff. Plan a short vacation or drive by the beach and cuddle. We really can not get away with the need to work and earn money. You need to make him aware of your needs as you need to hear and understand his side. He may have intentions why he works a lot and you need to support it.
Communication is always not that easy but this surely will give both of you better understanding of each other needs, wants, and goals in life.
Good luck and hope you'll find happiness.
2006-12-16 09:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Pinoy in Amerika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he a workaholic by choice or because of necessity?
This a tough call, because if he is working by choice these many hours, there may be a problem with your relationship. Only you can answer that one.
Now if he is working out of necessity, maybe you could maybe talk to him about your concerns and see if there is not some possibility of him getting more time off.
Sometimes, sacrifices have to be made in order for you as a couple to be successful in acquiring a house, car, or for a new baby you may have on the way.
This is all speculation and have no way of knowing what your circumstances are, but you have to be supportive of his efforts, and be grateful that you have someone who actually does hustle.
There are a lot of women out there who don't have husbands that will work.
2006-12-16 17:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by Gnome 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyway, they say it is very unhealthy to be lonely, try to make the best use of your time. I have been a workaholic too, maybe can it is a better way of saying you want to committ and take things to the next level? Evaluate your needs a human being, join yoga that will give you a boost
I would rather be with someone who works than with some mooching clingy no good for nothing gigalo. Hey commend your friend for being such a hard worker.
2006-12-16 17:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you're going to have to get used to as long as you're in this relationship. Asking him to make a decision between you and the job may have a disasterous conclusion. But think about this, you said you know he loves you....so that is a big plus. Also, he's a worker, not a bum, so that tells me he's a good provider...something to consider for the future....as in marriage. So far, it seems that you're in a win/win combination. It also seems to me that you're far ahead of other girls who may be "happy" cause their boyfriend is around all the time, but is too lazy to get a job. The real question that you need to ask yourself is if you're really happy with him, beside being lonely. Is there anything you can do while he's at work, as in a hobby? Think about things very carefully, don't make a quick decision. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-12-16 17:33:00 · answer #4 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to talk to him about it? I used to be the same way, and I wish that I would have learned to not work so much earlier in life. Tell him how you feel, but do not slam him for working. Just tell him that you would like just a little of his time.
2006-12-16 17:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by jeffko82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the time you do spend together. If its loving, sweet and kind...then you shouldnt feel lonely. Try to make the time you are together special and fun and memorable.
2006-12-16 17:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the most of the time you have with him. Or meet him at work with a picnic basket and lunch for two.
2006-12-16 17:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-16 17:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him how u feel if he loves u he will work for a little hours.
2006-12-16 17:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by Nana B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ace pt it or move on
2006-12-16 17:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by wrfab 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋