I like this guy!!! But many other girls like him, I want to be the only one, and think he favors me! I already wear nice clothing, and flirt lots! Is there anything I can Do to make him notice me, so I can distinguish myself out of the rest!! :D
Thank you for your help! :D <3
2006-12-16 08:03:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anna G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't act like a **** like some of these answers imply... Got a dance coming up? Ask him if he would go with you, that should give him the idea that you like him, and if he does like you, and if he isn't completely retarded, then he will probably get the point and maybe ask you out or something.
Send me a message if you want, always glad to try and help.
2006-12-16 12:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirt a little, not lots. A little let's him know you are interested, but lots of flirting let's him know the thrill of the chase is over. Be a classy lady, the one above average. The one he (and others) want to chase after. Be charming, nice, a girl with good values and morals, a person with good taste, etc. and you will get noticed and chased after. Lots of women chased after President Kennedy when he was single, but it was the sophisticated and gentle woman (Jackie) who won his heart. This still holds true today. Men want a lady with class. If you are young and have no experience, there are plenty of etiquette books which you can read and learn from. Also, go to a posh hotel and sit in the lobby and order tea and people watch, etc. You can learn a lot from people watching, even if it is at the local mall. I know all of this sounds old fashioned, but trust me, it works. All of my single friends date younger men, because the younger men complain that young girls nowadays just do not know how to be a lady and make a man feel like a man. I wish you well, and hope my advice is somewhat helpful. P. S. The books "The Rules" and "Love Languages" might be helpful to you, now or in the future.
2006-12-16 08:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by Orion777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 01:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, all you can do is be yourself and dress, act and speak like a lady. Men want a woman who has a high self-esteem but is not too overly involved in herself. You have to be careful, how much time you are spending trying to get this man's attention because each time he doesn't seem to notice you, you are taking from your self-esteem and before you know it, you will feel worthless because this one man is not trying to get with you. Let the other girls work for him. Sit back and relax, love yourself and when the right man comes along, he will notice you in sweats and a t-shirt with you hair up.
2006-12-16 08:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by smiles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yoursel and you need to get to him first by just going and talk to him normaly as you would do with a friend, work your way up with him and make sure you really like him and try and watch for some hints that he likes you and don't look obviously jelous when another girl is with him, work your up and when you guys are close and feel comfartable and safe around eachother tell him how you feel.
2006-12-16 08:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself but don't tell all. Leave some mystery. It keeps them guessing.
2006-12-16 08:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do, he has to decide this and i'm sure you don't want to be known as a town---- just to catch his eye :) :) :)
2006-12-16 08:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him u like him. good luck and happy holidays
2006-12-16 08:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear sexy cl0thes that sh0w 0ff y0ur b0dy !!
2006-12-16 08:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by sexypunkgrrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bang on.
2006-12-16 08:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋