I like this boy but do not know it it is ok to date. I have talked to my mom she is ok with me dateing. I still am not shure please help me soon because I realy like this cute boy.
2006-12-16 08:02:01 · 23 answers · asked by jennstarr12 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's good that you haven't and you should hold on to that for a few more years, don't try to grow up so fast.. you have plenty of years to date :) :) :)
2006-12-16 08:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think they're just being horny 14 year olds, no biggie. BUT THEN AGAIN, that's ME. You needa decide how YOU are. BUT, there is a limit. Sex talk and such is not only inappropriate, but it can lead to illegal behavior. I think PDA and affection between the two boys is common and can be tolerable, but trash talk can lead to sex, which is dangerous. I recommend you and your son have the sex talk. Also, tell him how you feel. Tell him what you're fine with and what you aren't fine with. Other then that, the rest seem normal to me. Calling each other 'babe' and missing them when they're not there just means they really like each other. My gay friends don't do such infront of other people, but I guess that's how Apollo and Austin show their affection. Privacy should be their option. But you needa determine what is crossing the line for YOU. You're the father, and you have that right. G'luck:)
2016-05-22 23:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at your age, it's not bad if you haven't kissed a boy. in fact, i didn't have my first real kiss until i was 16 and in high school (i'm 21 now)! just take things slow and get to know the boy you're dating. if you're not ready to kiss, don't kiss. and don't force a kiss. let it happen. wait until you're BOTH ready. and if this boy likes you, he wouldn't care if you haven't kissed anyone by 14. also consider group dates. they allow you to be with your crush, but take off the pressure that single dating may put on. and don't be thinking about commitment right now. you're 14. you have plenty of time before you should consider commitment.
2006-12-16 08:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by Rebekah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not bad that you have never dated or kissed a boy. Seriously. There are more important things in life, such as getting good grades so you don't end up a semi-literate toilet cleaner at Wal-Mart.
Try asking him out with a bunch of your friends. Go to the mall or some other such place for lunch or something.
2006-12-16 08:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by ladyinpurple 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a high school Freshmen and I haven't even thought about first kisses and dating. My parents have made it clear that I can date, but with the limits. Wait for a while, until you're comfortable and are sure that you can keep everything under control. When it happens, it will happens, and you must be confident and okay with it all.
2006-12-16 08:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by Rawr_Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know when the time is right to date. You are still young and have many years for dating.
2006-12-16 08:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by Angie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are still very young to be be stressing out over not dating yet. Why don't you try focusing on learning how to build strong friendships? The skills you need to maintain a healthy love relationship is similar to those skills needed to maintain a close, healthy friendship.
2006-12-16 08:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by alien20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly fine to date him! You don't have to take it too fast, just go with how you feel about it. Plus, i'm in the eighth grade and I havn't dated a guy yet either because I know i'd screw up or do somehting wrong! but you'll do fine!
2006-12-16 08:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey! i'm in the seventh grade 2! i think its ok 2 date a guy, but not like get serious. not like really dating dating. i'd call it more like being "special" friends. that doesn't mean that u should like totally be making out and stuff. i mean some people do, but i think that's kinda gross.
2006-12-16 08:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by pkhbonn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off....it's ok that you never kissed a boy..plenty of time for that....I think you're still too young to worry about dating..Move at you're own pace,not others!
2006-12-16 08:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by Jeff 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's great that you like boys but at your very young age you should not be dating. This is just my opinion though so please don't take it personally. It's OK with your mom though then you should probably be fine.
2006-12-16 08:37:17 · answer #11 · answered by leged56 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋