-to have SEX with him-
some say after at least 3 weeks-
2006-12-16 07:56:06 · 25 answers · asked by barbie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Three weeks? I'd say it should be at least a year. Of course, I'm trying to wait until marriage to "give it up." Have a nice day!
2006-12-16 08:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Again we see this as a male-driven issue. As if it is something that only the guy wants.
That attitude is improper.
You should have sex only when you want to. Women really need to take control over this issue. A young male ALWAYS wants sex, so there's no point in trying to control this from a male perspective.
When you, as a woman, want sex, then have sex. When you don't, then don't.
2006-12-16 16:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait until marriage. Trust me, you will be grateful for that. It's only for your husband. I can recommend a book by Joshua Harris,"I Kissed Dating Goodbye." Sex is designed for husband and wife, don't cheapen it. It will only bring you pain, even the man would be your husband. A good man will wait, not take advantage of you sexually. Don't feel you're a cool person if you act like many people do.
2006-12-16 16:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by bogey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have sex when you want to. it can be the first night or 2 months later it dont matter if a man judges you on when you have sex with him rather than you as a person then hes not worth it anyway.
2006-12-16 16:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are 18, a six month waiting time is not too long. it takes time to know what your partner is looking for. 3 weeks is not nearly enough time to determine if he just wants sex.
2006-12-16 16:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by sinned 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
3 hours
2006-12-16 15:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by azflyboy6477 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you really like him, and he's not seeing anybody else besides you, have sex with him after the 4th or 5th date (and make sure that he uses a condom!)
2006-12-16 16:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of stupid *** question is this? you wait until you're ready. do it when you feel comfortable, this is what creates variety in the world, people make different decisions and choices. but if you are young and need guidance, then the answer is probably no, and you should wait til you know what is going on, and everything involved with it. take care.
2006-12-16 15:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think there can be an exact time frame, it just depends on the releationship, how you feel about him and how he feels about you... its one of those things that when you are ready you will just know you are, if you are having questions about it then its probably not the time yet, i would wait awhile...
2006-12-16 15:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by Justin M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love is not a obligation its a chocie it took me a year and i married him well I was 17 years old but sex is something big not a joke. good luck
2006-12-16 15:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by Roxygal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋