When I talk 2 my bf on the phone things often get dead. he complains that if i loved him so much i would never stop talkin. I always run outta words to say 2him. I can blabber with my gf'z all day long! I dont want him 2 feel like i cant give him good conversation but what do i say?
2006-12-16 07:01:58 · 9 answers · asked by chocolateflavadgurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are a couple of things you can do.
First, ask him questions about stuff he is interested in. That will make him feel like you really understand him.
Second, work on doing fun an exciting things when he is not around. Then you will have stuff to tell him about.
I am seeing this girl long distance, and she felt like she had that problem at first. But, then she started going out and doing things (going to movies, hanging out with friends, going to see bands play, etc.) Once she got a life, she had much more things to talk about so she doesn't feel so bad.
Anyway, good luck.
2006-12-16 07:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by justfriends4n0w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you guys? Younger kids usually say things like, "If you love me you'd do this or that." (Reminds me of my ex bf from high school) Anyway- after awhile conversations usually go silent. That's why you guys need to go out and do things together... That my dear, will spark things to say. Phones usually doesn't do that unless he helps out with the conversation.
2006-12-16 15:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about himself! People love talking about themselves...and it will take some of the pressure off you to come up with answers!
2006-12-16 15:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by Katie Poo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl , well Just be honest with him, if you love him, and tell him, """""" Well How can i even think about words to say, when all i concentrate is hearing your sweet voice, which makes me feel like im in paradise with an angel"""""""" should work :)
2006-12-16 15:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by King K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about himself. People love to talk about themselves.
And it's ridiculous for him to judge how much you love him by how much you can talk on the phone.
2006-12-16 15:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him about a guy you saw today that was "so hot!" It will make him say something and then you won't have to worry.
(my b/f never broke up with me for saying this)
2006-12-16 15:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are the one making the phone calls to him
DONT CALL HIM
let him make the move to call you
he'll want to talk your ear off, and you'lll have plenty to say back
(trust me.. its works)
2006-12-16 15:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn some conv skills
Read news papers
Talk Things around,
and all that
2006-12-16 15:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by Kewl guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus talk about what's goin on and ask him stuff. and what u plan to do.
2006-12-16 15:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋