How do you interpret "taking it easy" when you're in a relationship??
My bf n i live not far from each other, but far enough that its too dangerous and impossible to walk to one another's house. Neither of us can drive since his car is smashed n I had an accident where I get too shaken up to get behind the wheel (I'm in therapy--don't tell me I need one).
So I IMed him a "I'm upset with you" speech. I was on the verge of tears cause he hardly has time to pick up the phone. He lives in a town full of clubs so he walks and he loves to have fun, but he wants to take me to the places he's at.I just don't have a ride. And, he's been sick all week (he lives with 6 people, no duh he's sick).
So I called him n said I was so sorry n he said he was never mad...but we should take it easy cause the distance is stressing us out...especially me.
I was in one way happy, and in another crushed.
I'm not clingy, I call him everyday expecting 10 min. of his time, if not less. (continued below...)
2006-12-16
07:00:23
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I HAVE MET HIM BEFORE. Its just a long ride on a bus for us.
This was right around the time I was about to say "I love you" cause I enjoy every minute this guy and I have shared (its been a while)....and I do. He even said he was falling for me a couple of times....
Speaking of which, if you're in a good relationship and you feel it coming, when you you say "I love you"? 3 months after the 1st date? 6? 12? IThis does not involve me...well sorta, but I'm also a writer. Help there would b appreciated.
2006-12-16
07:03:17 ·
update #1
this isn't an "on and off" relatonship, where I'm pissed one day and loving the next. He's never said a mean word to me.
OMG I have so much fun with him and he's a good kisser. He's such a family man and he doesn't wanna have sex yet.
stop givin me the "idk" excuse..I asked for an answer about my relationship...I didn't ask for you to read my mind, duh.
2006-12-16
07:08:44 ·
update #2