Me and my girlfriend have a baby together, and ever since she had the baby everytime I come in the house she gets in my face telling me how she saw me with another girl. We got into a fight this morning and she smacked me for no reason. So when she smacked me I ****** her up. Then when I got finished she kept complaining about how she was pregnant, and the baby not mine. When she said that I punched her in her face and in her stomach. WE GO THREW THIS EVERYDAY & EVERY NIGHT. I DONT WANNA KEEP HAVING TO DO THIS TOO HER IF SHE IS PREGNANT. HOW DO I STOP HER FROM GETTIN IN MY FACE ALL THE TIME????
2006-12-16 06:31:02 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You two need to be away from each other. You both need serious conseling,anger management, as well as parenting classes. Do you know what you you are doing to your kids. For one if you have a daughter, she will grow up to think that it's ok for a man to hit a woman, if you have a son, he will grow up to think that it's ok for a man to hit a woman. So what kind of an example are you showing? Wont it hurt you to see you'r daughter as a woman all beat up by her man, or to visit your son in jail because he beat up his girl?Think about the effects you two as parents are doing to your children.Arent they what matters most to the two of you? If not then you need to not have any more kids and give your kids a fair chances at life and give them up to a family that will love and give them the security they deserve to have. I hope you really think about this. At this rate you may not have to give up your kids or worry about trying to make you girl get up out your face, cause you will end up locked up at some point.SEROIUS MAN! THINK ABOUT IT PLEASE...............you kids deserve it and so do u
2006-12-16 07:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by sr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away!
At least for a while and she may start to appreciate you again.
Maybe she wont, but at least you will be away from the violence!
If the neighbors call the cops someone WILL GO TO JAIL and it is usually the man.
They don't mess around with domestic Violence any more.
Since the whole O.J. ordeal they take swift and immediate action.
Then you will be separated anyway by a protective restraining order. And if you violate that you WILL BE PUT IN JAIL AGAIN with no chance of bail until your pending trial.
And the fact that you violated the restraining order even once will be used against you in the court of law and will add to your sentence.
TRUST ME ON THIS ONE.
I have seen it happen too many times.
Until 10 or 15 years ago the police pretty much sluffed off Domestic Violence ("as a lovers quarrel") until they found out that Nichole Simpson was killed after many D.V. reports were filled and nothing was done.
Please save your freedom if nothing else.
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2006-12-16 06:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would leave. If you have no restraint then thats the best thing before you end up in a worse situation. once she has the baby the order a paternity test to be sure you are the father.If you are then take care of your responsibilities, but keep away from her. you dont want that type of drama around your child. you both come to an agreement on how things will be done for the child with the two of you seperated. also look up info on parental rights in your state.
2006-12-16 07:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by omniscient_27707 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here's the thing...I'm pretty sure that you just posted this to get a bunch of people freaking out. No one who is actually beating his girlfriend is going to be stupid enough to go online and tell the entire world about it, because if that were the case the authorities could track the IP address and your user account to figure out who you are pretty quickly.
So instead of playing this little game where you see how many people you can piss offf, how about you get a life...step away from your computer and go throw a frisbee with the other 9-year-olds on your block.
Oh and if this is real...and you are a complete retard for posting it online. You should realize that beating up a woman pretty much only proves that you're a worthless piece of crap.
2006-12-16 06:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by tkatt00 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Firstly there is never a good reason to hit a woman and no reason at all why you should be hitting a pregnant one!!
Since its not your baby just leave her. She can do a lot better than you and you should do some serious thinking before you get into another relationship. Never mind try to raise a child!
2006-12-16 06:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 1 when you felt as if you had to lift your hand to her or any other woman as far as that goes you should leave. Because it's disrespectful and considered abusive if anybody has to raise their hand to you like that be it male or female. And it sounds like y'all need to separate because it's bad enough to have one abusive person in one household less known talking about the both of you. The best way to stop her from getting into your face is to separate or get counseling if you can't do either of the two at this rate y'all are gonna hurt this unborn child and then what will y'all think of yourselves would you be able to live with that? I think not and if that baby comes here healthy and God knows i hope it does what kind of example are y'all setting fighting like that. So the only advice from me is to get professional help or separate. Good Luck! And my prayers go out to the both of you.
2006-12-16 06:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't punch her in the stomach. Then you're hurting the baby who is innocent in this fight.
Maybe when she starts harassing you you should just leave for a bit and go for a walk or something rather than hit her. You can end up in prison if she brings a charge of domestic violence against you, you know, particularly when she's pregnant.
2006-12-16 06:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by probablestars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah she hit you, Charge her DON"T HIT HER BACK! You two are not kids and why don't you just leave each other and stop hitting infront of the baby!!!!!!!!!!! You Both are at fault! think of the baby not yourselves! You both better cut it out, your baby deserves a happy home, and the baby knows and can feel negativity! don't let the baby see or hear you two fight! For the baby's sake and if you love the baby make a good choice.
2006-12-16 06:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a friend who actually had the same thing happend with his wife actually getting in his face and everything and really what you need to do as a man you need to go and get some anger management help and so does she.Then after you 2 get done with those things you'll together need to go to some couples therapy so you'll can either try to improve your relationship or you'll can just part ways.
2006-12-16 06:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by Chris L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try some counseling together if you really love her and want to make the relationship work cause no matter what you dont and shouldnt be hitting her try sitting down and talking with her and asking her why she is always accusing you if ya cant communicate with each other or have trust then the relatationship is never going to work but then on the other hand maybe ya should just go your seperate ways
2006-12-16 06:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by trueheart07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋