I am starting to think that love is just a fantasy, made up by american movie producers. The only reason people seem interested in eachother these days is to have sex. Relationships seem to be based on neediness and also seem to be too much of a hassle. I have a few men that are interested in me but Im not so sure if any of them will be worth getting to know. Loosing faith fast.
2006-12-16 06:16:58 · 13 answers · asked by Peaches 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, get to know yourself, that's most important. Finding yourself can lead to what you desire. If its just sex or the ultimate blessing of love. It might be hard to believe, thoughts become reality and you attract what you desire.
2006-12-16 06:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by zionputo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe what I've just read! I feel sooo sorry for you all, so sorry... Love does exist. But not everyone can find it. That's sad. And it's not like it wasn't ment for you to meet your love, you're just blinded by the attitude you have.
What do you live for? Money, sex, power... these things don't bring happiness, for a moment you'll feel happy, but next day you'll wake up and want more, and more, and more... In the mean time you'll marry, divorce, then marry, then divorce again... it is always easier to walk through with the person you love by your side...
the world is tough enough, don't complicate things denying love. it is enough that most people don't really care about you, why hate yourself so much refusing love consciously...
it is so depressing thinking you'll never have love. we usualy convert this depression in a fake inner power, wich will sooner or later dissapears and lives us alone, unhappy and dissapointed... with us...
I know it sounds pathetic for the times we live, but some things will never change!
I advice you date with those men, but don't put hopes in a relationship until you're sure the guy loves you. if one does you'll see it.
no matter how many times you are dissapointed, always remember that there really is someone for you, someone you'll meet sooner or later.
good luck honey, never lose hope! don't listen to them
2006-12-16 14:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by nastea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you have worries,try this one,then you really would worry++out with my g/f,just a comment on the fact aren't Asian girls more faith-full,understanding,and many of them are very attractive,yes she dumped me and iv been in the cold ever since,so your worry about love and fantasy is don't read to much into it you could loose every think like i did
2006-12-16 14:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you!!I am going through a breakup right now and thinking to myself to even really ove him or do I just want him around because I am dependent on him? I am more scared about being alone then actually losing him and that can't be love. I feel like love isn't actually real and it's just in our minds. Or maybe we both haven't found the right one lol.
2006-12-16 14:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by favteacher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be real but what you see on telly is all a fantasy, real love has to be worked at over a long period of time, sometimes the end result is worth the effort and sometimes it is not.
2006-12-16 14:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is real, hun. I know it can seem like it's just a myth but it's not. Love is something undescribable. So magical. So special. Don't lose faith, you'll find love.
2006-12-16 14:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by angel_in_pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Time to meet the real world.
2006-12-16 16:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by learned_old_sage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the moment i totally agree with you but i'm sure its just that we're a bit low. Love is real but as with everything it needs working at i'm just so tired of working
2006-12-16 14:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i strongly agree! "love" is overrated, peopl use that word only to get in the sack, love only looks real on t.v, in this life, the non-made up one there is only power, sex and money
2006-12-16 14:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by livinia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont believe in love i thinks its a 4 letter word used to use people and hurt people, all based on obbesion lust and guilt.
2006-12-16 14:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by bigjess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋