i still want to be friends with my ex...last night was the first time i had seen him in around 1 month...and he completely ignored me with his new girlfriend...but his and my friends basically just ignored him and hung around me when he wasn´t with her...he used to be my best guy friend and was the first person i could confide or trust in...and he completely destroyed it when he left me...i dunno why he has to ignore me since he left me for the new girlfriend and cuz he was gonna miss me when i move...he is on msn now...should i messenge him and if so what should i say or how should i act...i am very confused...he was my best guy friend and first boyfriend:S
please help
thnx:)
2006-12-16 06:15:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's a book for you:
He's Not That Into You, by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo.
Or, in your particular case, "he's moved on" and so should you. Honey, life is too short to waste waiting for someone who clearly does not deserve you or your love.
Take care ♥
2006-12-16 06:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He doesnt wanna eve be friends with you. you cant keep an ex even as a friend in most situations. How would oyu like your next bf to be best friends with his ex? you wouldnt like it and neither will he. Move on find a new guy or use one of your girlfriends as that close person who helps you thru things. its better in the long run.
Also he def ignored you when he was with his new gf cause he doesnt want her to think even if its untrue that he still wants you. girls are funny about that and even guys. they worry that they will go back to their ex.
2006-12-16 14:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, this is going to be tough but just move on... I know how you feel trust me, but it would be a lot better for you, and for him if you just move on and ignore him. If he wanted to still be friends and talk to you, he would. Give him some time, if he sees that you're not running after him and he starts to miss you, he'll come running after you... Just play it cool. Get out there and get yourself a new boy friend, one who will really appreciate you and love you like you know you deserve to be! Just move on...
2006-12-16 14:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by Cutie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is very difficult to just be friends,,, among those who were friends then became boyfriend/girlfriend,,,,,,,,he probably avoided you because he felt uncomfortable and also may of thought his current girlfriend would not like it,,,,,, which is a good sign,,, its a sign of respect,,,, as you date other people, you will have boyfriends that have ex's,,,, you most likely will not want them paying attention to thier ex at a party or anywhere, you need to be sensitive to him and his new girl,,,, and in life hopefully you will get the same back,
2006-12-16 14:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk 2 him and ask him y is he ignoring him and lets just be friends cause u didnt know that if u would have broke up wit him that yall friendship would end cause u necer want that to happen and say that if i would have known that our friend ship was gonna end i owuld have never gone out wit you but thats not 2 be mean thats to tell him that our friendship is more important than some relatinship.
2006-12-16 14:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go and do something crazy for him and start a rumer about the otther girl
2006-12-16 14:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by Tyler Scholl 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋