what should i do my boyfriend is gay and i caught him in my bedroom with his boyfriend making out. I asked him how long..... and this is really hard for me. I asked him how long has this been going on and he said since December 16th of last year and this is his anirversery. What should i do?
2006-12-16 05:52:02 · 17 answers · asked by Lissa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is sad, have an AIDS Test done right away.
2006-12-16 05:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, kind of obvious answer here... dump him! DER! if he's gay and he has a gay boyfriend, then get the heck out of his life and don't ever speak to him again. I don't care what you say "I still have feelings for him!" or "But he loves me!" No. he doesn't. again, get completely out of his life, don't communicate with him at all. Tell him why, too. That's so wrong, to be gay or les. So, so wrong.
2006-12-16 13:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by L-dog =) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is gay then there isn't to much for you to do. Tell him how you feel and end it. Obviously he wasn't for you. I know it sucks but you just need to deal with it the best you can and move on. Think about it this way, in a few years you can look back on it and laugh. (Hopefully).
2006-12-16 13:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Re-evaluate your sexual performance. You mustn't be very good in bed or else he'd still be with you. If he prefers the company of a man to the company of a woman...you...then it's obvious! His B/F's hairy a** is more inviting than your cunnie. I suggest that you shave the hair around your cunnie into a "Hitler-esque" trim. Then, learn how to truly satisfy your man. If this doesn't work, you should consider going lesbo just to get even with him.
2006-12-16 13:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Being with two people isn't right if one doesn't know about it. He doesn't deserve you.
mamabear: You're an idiot. You think because he's gay he must have AIDS? Do you have a PhD in total ignorance?
Note, he could be bisexual, rather than gay.
2006-12-16 13:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by Lilium 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he should make a decision between his boyfriend and you, depending on how you feel about him being gay. If this bothers you that he is gay, I think you should move on with your life.
2006-12-16 13:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by jeffko82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, your boy friend is gay! What more do you need to know? How can he be a boy friend to you when he is in love with a boy? Be glad you know and find a straight guy to date.
2006-12-16 13:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be supportive of him. it hurts a lot, but you guys can still be really good friends. he still loves you (trust me, this happened to me once... well i didn't catch him he just told me he was gay), just not the way you really wanted i'm sure.
2006-12-16 13:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by clementine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another boyfriend right away. Donot delay another day.
2006-12-16 13:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jo Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damm if i wuz u i think it would be hard 4 me 2
2006-12-16 13:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋