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2006-12-16 05:50:22 · 12 answers · asked by mani p 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Ah, the short, romantic massage -- a great way to take flirting up to the next level, a wonderful way to introduce a bit of intimacy into a relationship, and a fantastic source of pleasure to someone with whom you're already involved. These are five of my favorites -- giving OR getting:

1. Base of the skull to top of the shoulders -- accessible in public, easy to do, and EVERYBODY likes having their neck rubbed. Stand behind your partner, put a hand on either side of their neck, and make circular motions with your thumbs on the large muscles/tendons on either side of the spine. Follow the stress down to the tops of the shoulders. Be careful not to pull the little hairs at the base of the skull! As an option, you can drive your fingers forward into their hair behind the ears and make light scrubbing motions on their scalp, depending on hairstyle.

2. Between the shoulderblades and the spine. A very common place for people to be tense. Usually (though not always) worse on the dominant side -- that is, right-handers are usually stiffer on the right, lefties on the left. Locate the shoulder blade and the bumps on the backbone, then massage between them. This usually requires a little more pressure, as it's a fairly major muscle group. If you're really close (or would like to be!) with your partner, you can slip your left hand across the top of their chest to give you some leverage -- low enough not to make it a chokehold, high enough that, if you're massaging a female, it's not an obvious attempt to become TOO intimate.

3. Eyebrows and temples. VERY romantic... VERY sensual... use a light touch and stroke gently in small, slow circles. You can add some cheekbone massage, and finish with strokes from under the jaw up toward the ears. If humans could purr... this would have them shaking the windows.

4. Hands. Also very romantic -- take one of your partner's hands in both of yours, hold it palm up, and massage the center of their palm firmly with your thumbs. Pull gently on each finger in turn: hold their index finger with your thumb and first two fingers, then twist it lightly as you pull down toward the tip. Repeat for the other fingers and thumb.

5. Feet. The most intimate of these short massages, because your partner has to remove clothing -- even if it's just shoes. Start facing opposite your partner, with his or her sole facing you; hold their foot in both your hands and massage the sole with your thumbs. Get the space under the toes; pull on the toes lightly (as for the fingers in #4), but additionally, lightly run your index finger BETWEEN the toes before beginning (if your partner is barefoot; if he/she is in socks, removing them can be VERY sensual -- especially if you're giving a foot massage to a woman in pantyhose. :-) Continue massaging the ankles and calves; any higher and you change the focus from "romantic short massage" to "sensual massage leading to foreplay" -- which can be wonderful, but is an entirely different thing.

2006-12-16 07:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by Scott F 5 · 1 0

Since she is so busy, plan something minor with her. Tell her you want to have a date night. Tell her something small, like going out to a movie or comedy club, then make her breakfast in bed in the morning. Make sure that overnight and the morning are available! Then you can plan the big stuff once you know she is available. You might call the shelter where she works and arrange for your wife to leave a couple hours early, you can pick her up and begin the outing. That way she won't be as tired:) One last idea...book her some time at a spa the afternoon of your grand plans. She will be relaxed and feel like a million bucks! I hope this helps!

2016-05-22 23:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

If you were a shoreline I would come roaring to the shore to be with you time and again.
You are the wind beneath my wings
You are every breath I take

2006-12-16 11:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0 0

romantic short MASSAGE or MESSAGE?

2006-12-16 15:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by Meera 3 · 0 0

U mean "MASSAGE" so that.....Rub ur lips over hers.
By the way if it is "MESSAGE" then tell her ILU.

2006-12-16 12:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by naafraat 4 · 1 0

just sroking the hair with the fingers

2006-12-16 06:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by lavanya 1 · 0 0

romance

2006-12-18 06:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by domain4 d 1 · 0 0

i thik you mean messages . ilu ilu

2006-12-16 15:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0 0

by eyes

2006-12-16 11:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0 0

massages????

2006-12-16 06:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by raindrops 5 · 0 0

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