Break up, or seek counseling. It sounds like you are too immature to have a serious relationship, sorry.
2006-12-16 05:45:23
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answered by b k 1
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Usually when you are fighting over dumb stuff, there is a larger problem at hand. People tend to nit pick when they are really not happy with the other person. Realize that you could be in a relationship that you are happy in, and you won't need to deal with the stress of constantly bickering. Every couple will have dissagreements, true, but a healthy relationship will not consume itself with fighting over "dumb stuff". Life is too short for such annoyance. Do what it takes to make yourself happy. No one else will do it for you. There are tons of great people out there. If you are happy with yourself, you can be happy with someone else. Let yourself have the opportunity to be happy. Best of Luck!
2006-12-16 13:55:58
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answered by Ladysmith 2
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well that would depend on how long you two have been together. think for a second, when you guys are fighting you obviously have his attention. when you are not fighting how is he towards you? is he attentive and caring... or does he kind of do his own thing and isn't really all into you? if its the second one maybe you just need more attention from him. so tell him that.
and if it is something as silly as politics, why dont you guys just try agreeing to disagree. there is nothing wrong with having different opinions about things. but try to find some common ground that you guys wont fight about. and focus on that for a while.
2006-12-16 14:46:22
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answered by Jezyka Isabella 1
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Try to be more understanding and let the little things slide. If you know that he cares for you, he is not doing things on purpose to piss you off. If he tries to start stuff with you over nothing, just tell him flat out, I'm not going to fight with you today or I'm in a good mood, please dont ruin it. That way he knows that he is starting something and maybe he will check himself. Also, you should talk to him about it too. Just tell him that it seems like you guys get into fights about stupid things, and you dont like it. See if he will agree to work with you about trying not to fight as much.
2006-12-16 13:45:59
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answered by __XXX___ 3
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Stop fighting. Think about why you fight with him and what the reason might be that cuses you to fight. If you want to stop the fighting why don't you tell him you want the fighting to stop? Another thing you can do is to think about what you will say before you say it. In other words, think before you speak. Remember, you should listen twice as much as you speak after all, you have 2 ears but only 1 mouth. Think about it.
2006-12-16 13:44:45
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answered by Lewis P 4
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well 1st u can stop letting those little or stupid things get to u
and snd instead of fighting u should talk about it it would make it alot better trust me ive done it
2006-12-16 14:05:47
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answered by <33_Mandy_<33 1
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tell him this and if you guys fight over it......then dump him...arguments are a healthy part of a relationship but healthy relationship doesn't consist of constant arguments....
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2006-12-16 13:43:20
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answered by Cathy 4
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