how do i tell my girlfriend its over without hurting her.. can anyone help me out here?
2006-12-16 05:35:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no way to end it with her without hurting her. The best thing for you to do is be honest. Don't beat around the bush with it because it may give her false hope for continuing to be with you.
2006-12-16 05:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by angie20k 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Weigh in carefully on your decision to break up. Is this really what your heart wants? You may not be able to reverse your decision once it's made, and you may burn bridges in the process. If you're sure with it, just be honest but sensitive. Lay out your reasons honestly. No one likes to get dumped. But we at least appreciate the truth when it's over. Unless, of course, the truth is you've stopped finding her attractive, you've met someone better, or that you're just plain bored with the relationship. Also, keep your emotions in check. Don't seem too happy about the breakup: you'll come off as mean-spirited. Just be kind, caring, and considerate. Be humble. Not proud. Take no joy in what you're doing,
2006-12-16 06:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by emma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open and honest with her. Anything else gives a false impression. If you have been seeing her for a while she is going to be hurt, but if you really want it to be over, you need to do it now. The longer you take the more it will hurt her.
2006-12-16 06:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by jeffko82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she still loves you there is no way she won't be hurt. You're hurting her more if you wait to tell her though.
2006-12-16 05:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st; explain to her why it's over between you; no one wants to be dumped for no reason.
2nd; tell her that "it's over"; when you can talk to her undisturbed by anyone; and take your time.
3rd; be as honest as possible.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-16 05:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably wont care........if she does there is no easy way.make it quick...the long drawn out talk is worse...just say hey I care about you but I need to be single right now......BECAUSE IT'S CHRISTMAS N I HAVE NO MONEY FOR YOUR PRESENT.
2006-12-16 05:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by eldiablo0731 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god forgive u...u will break her heart anyway
plz dont leave her
2006-12-16 05:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no easy way to do that
2006-12-16 05:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no easy way... sorry about that
2006-12-16 05:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by dragaralu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋