this is really bothering me. i've been seeing this guy for about 6 months it's nothing really serious between us and his friend is asking me for sex he asked me three times and it's getting on my nerves i don't know what to do i told him no i don't think it's right and he keeps pressuring me about it and he's trying to have us sneak to do this. i don't feel comfortable at all i've told him that it will be wrong and he says not if noone finds out over and over. i want him to stop bothering me and i want to tell the guy that i'm with but i don't want to start any trouble between thier friendship. what should i do to stop this? should i tell him that his friend is bothering me or leave it alone? my friends tell me that it could be a set up to see what i would do but the way he's pressuring me it doesn't seem like it. please help i need good advice
2006-12-16 05:24:10 · 8 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your friends could be right. There are a lot of young men out there who do not trust their girlfriends and end up setting them up in this way.
However, his friend (the one asking for sex) could be very serious at the same time.
If I were you I would first tell his friend to "stop" talking to you at all because you have already made it clear that your NOT going to have relations with him. Secondly, I would talk to your boyfriend and let him know that his friend keeps harassing you.
Also, be careful. In my experience, when I've told a guy "no" and they keep coming back and begging for it, they usually don't let up. If he doesn't let up, it may be best to let someone else know to help you out with the situation, Such as your parents or if it gets too bad, call the police about it. They will make him stop.
2006-12-16 05:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by Deu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell you bf or whatever you call him. If his friend is pressuring him this month, maybe the guy your with can stand up for you and make this other guy lay off. If your bf doesn't do anything, then I'd suggest breaking up with him and avoiding both of them as much as you can. If the friend STILL doesn't leave you alone, get help from an adult.
2006-12-16 13:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by L-dog =) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok now b4 u tell ur bf tell his friend no again n this time say it with force and like u mean it n let him no also that u will tell his friend if he does not stop. if he continues u can tell ur bf but there is somethin else whic i see arisin that friend might go tell ur bf that u r the one runnin afta him and try to turn ur bf from u so plz be prpared to defend urself if u innocent n like the guy u wih all the best girlfriend
2006-12-16 13:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by thebeautifultakiesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably would especially since the guy has asked numerous times.Better to be honest now because if he ever found out later he'd be mad at you for not telling him.
2006-12-16 13:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by J♥R♥R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shud tell him because if he is asking his friend's gf for sex then obviosuly he is not a real friend. Ur bf should kno exactly what kind of "friend" this guy is.
2006-12-16 13:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him. he has a right to know what his firend is doing. because what his friend is disrespectful to you and your man. hes not a good friend for doing this and you wont be a good girlfriend if you dont tell
2006-12-16 13:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by ! tiffy ! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your harasser that if he doesn't stop that you will tell your bf. If you have already done so then tell your bf.
2006-12-16 13:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes ...tell him
2006-12-16 13:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋