my bf and i have been together for 3 yrs. we just broke up and hes acting different then normal because he usually break up with me when he cant take it anymore. (stress) Hes not the time to talk things out he thinks breaking up teaches me a lesson. Since it xmas coming up should i call him and try to work things out one last time or ignore him and let him realize what hes missing? what hurts the most is his family is like my family so im not only losing him im losing a family also. I cant tell if this is just his normal breakup routine or if its really over this time. Hes acting more of a jerk this time but this time he has friends that he hangs out with everyday. in the beggining of the breakup he was nice but now hes not and we were having sex for a couple weeks after we broke up but he just got meaner. I kinda seen that when i ignore him hes nicer and flirts with me and things seem to get better but when im nice and touchy he turn mean and hates me. help me!
2006-12-16 05:21:03 · 5 answers · asked by heather 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this man is manipulating you and treating you like a child that needs to be taught a lesson, why are tolerating such behavior,he has absolutely no respect for you as you have none for your self.I am pretty sure he has done this from day one, if he doesn't get his way he treats you like kaka and you change you ways to suit him . please look at what he is making you in to, Keep in touch with his family if you need to but run when you see this little boy, as he will not give up on such easy prey
2006-12-16 05:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw him. It sounds like he only wants you when you act like you don't care, which isn't what you want. There is no reason to totally dump his family if you became close friends with them. But I definately would get that dude off his high horse and find someone that isn't mean.
2006-12-16 13:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by meljghays 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need meanness in your life. Someone who is that way will only get worse over time. No lie. Dump him and move on.
2006-12-16 13:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one
2006-12-16 13:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous_xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has broken up with you then i would just ignore him, because if you try to talk to him, sometimes it will just push him back and he won't have anything to do with you.l
2006-12-16 13:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by trac_dy123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋