Take this from a girl, hun. We are complicated but a lot easier to understad that guys. All we want is for someone to love and get love back, someone to make life sweet for us. : D Girls go through the same thing. So the best thing is to ask yourself what do you think would get your attetion. You could just be friendly and ask about homework or a test.
hope this helps,
a mess
2006-12-16 05:14:16
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answered by angel_in_pink 2
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You can't force someone to like you, but the worst thing you could do is write off the relationship before it has even begun. You should always take risks, that's my motto, because you never know what you could get out of it. Firstly, I as a girl know that many girls, including me, would go to extreme lengths to prevent the guy of her dreams from discovering she has feelings for him, which leads him to either have absolutely no idea or even think she hates him, which is stupid because if he likes her then he is completely put off and the relationship never gets anywhere! But I still do it because I'm not confident enough just to outright say something.
First of all, do you know this girl well enough for her to politely smile at you if she sees you outside of school/college/work, whatever, or have you never even spoken before? If you do talk to her, the best thing to do would be to play on her interests. If you know what she likes, strike up a conversation around it, or if you don't, ask her. Something all girls like is attention!!! The idea that you are interested in what she has to say will make her feel good.
If you have never spoken to her ever, find a tie somewhere, maybe you know a friend of a friend or something like that. Make sure you know, not stalker-like but just the basics, of some of the places or people she hangs with and things she likes and does. That way you can 'accidentally' bump in to her outside of where you usually see her, which means there'll be less pressure and you'll feel more relaxed about it, and it sounds stupid but I've bagged a boyfriend with that method!! If she doesn't know you but seems like a nice, chatty girl, strike up a conversation from something as simple as 'I like your jeans' or 'Can I borrow that pen?' If she is one of those really popular, really gorgeous girls who is quite plastic and is the most popular then it would do best not to try too hard, or avoid entirely, as these girls can be mean, can break hearts and trust me... once they disperse into the wide world and can't rely on their looks they face trouble.
Good luck !!!! Hope you get the girl of your dreams.
2006-12-16 13:18:31
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answered by thistles 1
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make friendship
do important works so she notices u
sloly get to the point but not too late
dont wait for good frnds even if ur frnds u canconfesss ur love but first know how possesive and independent she is abt all these
2006-12-16 13:06:16
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answered by aakash b 3
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Just go up and talk to her. She's human you know. But don't try too hard. Just be natural. Go up to her and say "hi" And if she doesn't know you too well or at all. Introduce yourself. Trust me, most girls like someone who can go up to them and talk.
but don't be so sudden to tell that person you like her. Get to know her and her to know you. Create a friendship. And see if anything will build off of that.
I hope that helps.
2006-12-16 18:33:28
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answered by hreye005 2
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Try being friends first. In the beginning, try not to make it look like you like her. Once you are freinds, then you can be more up-front. If she likes a band you like or if you have something in common you can use it as a conversation starter.
2006-12-16 13:07:19
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answered by Rach 5
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Well sense im a girl i guess i may no
Be funny make jokes and laugh just talk to her and be nice around her and go up to her and say something like i like your shirt.
2006-12-16 13:26:04
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answered by babydollz 1
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screw her click on my avi and email me because u seem hot
2006-12-16 13:56:54
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answered by casey 1
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Wow your avi is hot
2006-12-16 13:04:59
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answered by goody2shoe 2
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just go over to her and start talking to her, it can't hurt, and be yourself. good luck
2006-12-16 13:05:41
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answered by misty blue 6
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