ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .
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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone
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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message
hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!
<3 (name)
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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking
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25 minutes ago
this is the latest message i just got tonight
heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)
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19 minutes ago
she just sent me another email saying that she wants me to come to her birthday party . .. now why would she want me to come if he is going to be there . . . it would only cause trouble and be really awkward on top of that
2006-12-16 05:01:46 · 4 answers · asked by lbsb2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think she is really confused. if she admitted she doesn't like to be alone then she may just be waiting to see if you and her could possibly work things out and then she would dump her current. i did the same thing with my ex, but he was kinda forced in to talking to me considering we have to children together.
2006-12-16 05:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by maggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still wants you but you are not exactly what she wants! She wants to have her cake and eat it to! She doesn't want you to be with anyone else! She wants to think that you still want her! She can't stand to think that you are over her! She is not good for you because if you were to get back with her, it would just happen again or she would cheat. I dated a woman ( girl) that acted just like this!!!
2006-12-16 13:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by Andrew P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mention 2 items pop out. 'she wants to date around'
And 'she hates being alone.'
Please think about it. This says it all. Do you know the definition of 'dating'?
It appears, she wants to date you both.
2006-12-16 13:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you still have feelings for her? if not...change your number this girls sounds like trouble
2006-12-16 13:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋