How can i be nice?

Question

i cant let things go.
im really mean to everyone i love.
what can i do to be nice and keep people in my life?
i know it sounds easy, just be nice but its hard

Answer 1

teach yourself a lesson. put a big thick rubberband around your wrist and everytime you say something mean pull the rubberband as far as it can go and release. that should teach you

Answer 2

Well, it really can be more of a challenge than you think. We all have "absolutely different" personalities, belief structures, and ways of rationalizing our day to day thought patterns. This is why we are so unique.
We are also all so neurotic and somewhat compulsive with repetitive patterns of thinking that we end up blinding our rational thoughts, or, what you could say is the "right thing to do" kind of thinking. To simply put it, but with it not being so simple to do, you need to change the way you perceive things. But you can't do this until you instill some cofidence for yourself. If you dislike certain traits about you, then it will not be noticable to others. I know it sounds cheesy, but what do you like about yourself? Do some soul searching and fix your own bridges before worrying about others right now.

Answer 3

Try to think before talking and if you can say anything nice don't says anything at all when my husbands aunt is around a have a few drinks and say very little to keep from telling her off and if she really gets under my skin I leave the rom till she's gone

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Answer 4

put urself in the other person's shoes when u feel like being mean

Answer 5

count to 5 before you speak give you time to think before you speak

Answer 6

Maybe you should get some d.ick on the regular, that will calm your as$ down GET SOME GOOD SEX

Answer 7

I need to take you over my knee and spank you!!!!

Answer 8

Anger Management !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!