my current boyfriend is allowing his ex girlfriend to move in with him. she recently got evicted from the home she was renting and apparently had no place else to turn. i personally don't feel bad for her at all because it is her own fault. i never liked her (not because she is the EX), she has no manners and no morale. the first time i met her (before i was dating my man and before i never anything of their history---i thought she was just a friend) i didn't like her. she was telling me about her sex life--apparently she thought that either myself or my 10 year old niece would like to know. i have absolutly no respect for her and have told my b/f that i didn't care if he talked to or hung out with her but i want nothing to do with her. since she is now moving in tomorrow (him and i do not live together) i have told him that i will not come over when she is home. i made it very clear in the past that i do not want anything to do with scum like that.
2006-12-16 04:33:36 · 32 answers · asked by maggie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. you always have a right to be angry.
2. You definitely need to make sure she is not going to go after your BF again. Be the Alpha *****, and let her know where she stands.
2006-12-16 04:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by sm177y 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be upset. There is no good reason to be living with your ex unless you had a previous living arrangement. I would have suggested not letting it get this far but it seems there is an obligation. I would suggest that you make it clear that this is an extremely temporary living situation and make sure it doesn't last more than a month or you may be sorry.
2006-12-16 04:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by Tim W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand completely why you needed to keep this rather secret for now! I absolutely do! you've an exact to be indignant, for constructive. You depended on those with very particular counsel, and they blew which have self belief completely out of the water. although, i wager the alternative you want to make is - is this situation properly worth doubtlessly wrecking some relationships. in case you throw a in fantastic condition or some thing like that, likely someone will be harm (alongside with you nonetheless) and which will probable bring about persisted harm emotions. My suggestion is that you ought to envision with the those that you informed (and requested no longer to assert some thing) and clarify to them how they have harm you. After that, you want to make your innovations up what to do. both enable it go or carry onto it, for sure the wear and tear is performed, and at the same time as it comes right down to it - you're the single you want to worry about, properly, you and your companion. reliable success with this crappy situation!
2016-10-18 09:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very angry. I mean ask him if he would mind if your old bf moved in for a while. First of all did he ever ask you if you minded? Men are stupid. this does not mean that he likes her and not you. He just is trying to be "cool" and act like he has this girl who does what he wants and he is the Kind. Hit the King in the head and bring him back to reality. He needs to get that hoe out and he needs to do it now or leave the man! I hate to be so mean but that is really how I feel and what I would do!
2006-12-16 04:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by Julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have a right to be angry and even hurt. Two spins to this! I guess maybe you can actually see when you stand back that your boyfriend is a nice person.Or he might just want to have his cake and eat it too! How much do you actually trust "HIM" not her.
Talk about it with him and tell him how you feel and just e very clear about your parameters and if you don't trust him then I think that you have a whole different problem on your hands.
Good luck Hun!
2006-12-16 04:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by honeyed_dimples 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok... The answer to your question is a resounding YES! You should be angry that a loose moraled, promiscuous, ex girlfriend, is moving in with your boyfriend. I understand pitty, but he better be setting a time limit on her stay, and if he doesn't, maybe you should put a time limit on the relationship.
2006-12-16 04:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by oceanblue_007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no way in hell girl! either you tell him to choose between you or her. there is no right in this. im sure she can find somewhere else to go like family???? It is always certain that when a man and a woman live together something will eventually happen. You need to get her out asap. And he needs to understand. Ask him how he would like it if your ex moved in with you?
2006-12-16 04:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by heather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check up on your boyfriend. You dont live with him. If he had the brains he wouldnt let her move in with her. How about kicking her out to a dorm or a Guest house.. and dont pay a cent.
You have all the rights to be angry. If i were in your place.. even if i did trust the guy.. i wouldnt care.
2006-12-16 04:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by Prima donna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really like him get past it. maybe they are friends, and nothing else. I would try to talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel. and next time she brings the sex stuff up, just tell her that you are not interested in that, maybe you can be friends, , which seems hes just trying to help a friend out. but if you don't trust him and you really don't tell him how you feel about it, then i would move on and find a guy that will. good luck.
2006-12-16 04:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you do have a right to be angry. Be very cautious, keep an eye on him because his ex sounds like a floozy lol. What b/f in their right mind would let his ex move in with him? Would he like it if YOUR ex b/f moved in with you? I think you should ask him that.
2006-12-16 04:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by dark_roses13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋