My ex and I broke up after 3 years together. Its now christmas and new years and I'm getting more anxious to get back together for one of them. It's been a week since I have talked to him. Should I call him and make one last attemt to reconcile or should i still do the ignore thing make him miss me thing until he can't take it anymore? I want to wait til atleast christmas and hope that he will call on xmas and tell me to come over. Or should i call him first? should i buy him something for xmas to show him im still thinking of him or make him feel like im not thinkin of him and it will make him come back more because hes not receiving the attention i used to give him? im so lost and confused. please help me
2006-12-16 04:27:51 · 12 answers · asked by heather 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should not call him. You broke up because your relationship is BROKEN. Let him chase you - men are hunters. They like to persue. If you call him, and are too readily available - you won't keep him interested for long. Men like the chase - women should give it to them!!!
2006-12-16 04:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you could do is go ahead and buy him something for xmas. And give it to him I mean take it to him and you hand give it to him. And when he is like "what" then you tell him that you've been thinking and that you want to make it work with him. And if he don't then he'll still be thinking of you and what kind of nice and warm person you are. If ya'll was together for 3 years then there must still be feelings. either way it's good. you could get him back or you can let him know what kind of woman you really are. a good one
2006-12-16 12:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by Valerie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask uself if its worth getting back together, from his behaviour do u think he still wants u? I think u should let him act but u can give him little hintsu want 2 get back 2 him. First look at the reason u guys broke up and if it's too bad like he cheated on u or something of that kind u should 4get about him but if it was a stupid reason then such a relationship should be continued. I can c why ur feeling confused, ur still attached 2 him but jst think about very deeply be4 acting, about the reason u guys broke up...
2006-12-16 12:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all think about the reason why you broke up, then ask you self can you forgive and forget. if you cant you will be going backwards and getting hurt again. if you can then there is no reason why you shouldn't call because you are getting back together anyway
2006-12-16 12:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by Brook Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't make sense you broked off three years ago and all of the sudden you want him back. if hes not calling you wait awhile maybe hes busy, or if you really want to know just call him and ask him.
2006-12-16 12:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play hard to get.. that way if he calls you, you will know that he wants to be with you, not that he feel sorry for you and is answering your calls , etc.. out of pity.
2006-12-16 12:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by Desiree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him first....!!!!!!!!!! guys just like us, are shy......we women, always make that mistake to let the guy do the first move, but by getting ahead of him, you will let him know that you do really want him....he's gonna see that you still love him, so do it as soon as possible, cuz if not, youre probably ognna regret it
2006-12-16 12:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by dianasgiron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt be ignoring him because by ignoring him ur pushing him away n hes going to be thinking u dont want him so hes gonna move on so dont ignore him hopefully you do get back with him.GGOD LUCK!!!!
2006-12-16 12:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by i got drama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has moved on? Not enough details to give any advise,sorry and good luck.
2006-12-16 12:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you break up? call him if you really want him back but only if you know he feels the same way because otherwise it can get awkward... good luck!
2006-12-16 12:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋