How can you tell if a girl has lost interest in you?
My girlfriend replys to text messges i send but now she doesn't send any herself. She use to but now after serveral dates she doesn't seem to text message me anymore or show much enthusiasim when replying.
2006-12-16 04:19:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she might just be looking for excitement, maybe you are being repetitive in your txts, i know that bugs me and then i dont reply....try doing something romantic for the next time you see her, like get her flowers or something nice like that and then say "oh just because your beautiful" when she askes why you did it :) good luck
2006-12-16 04:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When they start talking about stuff that they know has nothing to do with you, therefore leaving you out of convos, avoiding you, getting really attached to her girlfriends(prolly looking to have them back her up)..Stops taking time to do stuff with you or for you... Stops making eye contact, or giving real smiles. There are more...if you want more, but I think thats a good start for now Good luck with whatever the situation is
2016-03-13 07:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Daniela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that she's dealing with something external to your relationship.
But when I've lost interest in a relationship, contact is the first thing to go. I just stop putting in effort. But I also try and let the person know, because I hate being strung along.
Ask her what's going on.
2006-12-16 04:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by LifesAMystery 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she is losing interest. make sure u compliment her and treat her like she's royalty for a few days. maybe she'll jump start again and be more interested. Possibly also she just gets bored wif what u guys talk about. maybe make the topics more interesting. hope things work ;)
2006-12-16 04:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by lil miss sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing to go is that natural flirtation. Then she'll give excuses not to see you/talk to you, etc.
Anyway, if you're wanting to salvage something, don't bring anything up! Don't confront her with a whiny "Don't you like me anymore?". That'll put her off.
Try this approach: As somebody up there mentioned, it could just be stale for her. Are you very repetitive? Don't change who you are, but spice it up a little bit. Be spontaneous. Text her in a way that's not typically 'you'. Play with her mind, try to keep her on her feet - guessing what you'll do next.
2006-12-16 04:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by Yosh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might just be caught up with the holidays and all and she may be stressed out or having problems. Try a different approach like write her a letter or send her a card in the mail. Or leave her voice message and sing her a little song. If you are really concerned just ask her if she is okay and say you were just worried. I am sure she would appreciate that. Don't worry too much and don't take it to heart okay :)
2006-12-16 04:23:15 · answer #6 · answered by hunnysbeckers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she reached her limit for text messaging, and yes maybe she already lost interest in you. that's why when friends don't e-mail or IM or text me...i directly ask them..because i think its pretty lame that they will just fall at the side of the earth without saying goodbye..usually there are reasons..for it..and real friends dont lose interest..some acquaintances do, though.
2006-12-16 04:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't base this girl's interest in you on TEXT MESSAGES! Good lord... what has this world come to! Just talk to her. Find out what's going on... it could be nothing. She could just be really busy lately... or losing interest in TEXT MESSAGES. Crazier things have happened...
2006-12-16 04:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by Jaelyn 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Shes playing hard to get, so you'll wonder whats going on run after her and want her more. She might be a pro.
2006-12-16 05:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to jump the gun maybe it's getting really expensive for her to send any herself and receive them too. I would think if she's lost interest in you she wouldn't respond at all. Most women wouldn't respond to anything if they've moved on.
2006-12-16 04:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋