about life in general, but more specifically, love, relationships, and rejection. REJECTION is the one i need most advice on.
2006-12-16 04:16:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
* life is simple, but we insist on making in complicated
* you miss 100% of the chances you don't take
* everything happens for a reason ... it all works out in the end
* he's just not that into you .... and face it, you're not that into him either
* no one can make you feel inferior without your consent
* it's their loss, I'm fabulous dontchaknow!
* i'm good enough, smart enough and gosh darn it, people like me! (haha - Stuart Smalley, SNL)
* live the life you love
2006-12-16 04:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Rejection is an overrated and overused word. For example, did you really know the person who rejected you? If not, then how can someone reject you if they don't even know you?
True rejection is being stood up at the altar on your wedding day.
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2006-12-16 04:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My favorite saying is from the movie "ever after"
Fate is a busy Lady, sometimes you have to help her out.
As for rejection...look at it as a good thing because at least you know where not to look. Eventually you will get to the door that is right for you, and when you find it and open it....you will enter into the happiness you were meant to find.
2006-12-16 04:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some one once told me that the law of no's is a real thing...It is simply "Every NO is just one NO closer to a YES." Don't be a stalker...100 no's - 1 no = 99 no's to a yes! this can be translated many ways and it is up to you to see the right meaning that works for you....I like to think for every break up I go through I am one relationship closer to Mr. Perfect! Hang in there...Time heals many things.
2006-12-16 04:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is such a hard thing to take at a certain time when some guy don't like you or the way your friends ditch you at the mall it take time to heal from this and learn from your mistakes ok
2006-12-16 04:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by sexygirl4adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always remind myself that how I choose to react to someone or something is based on my history, which is internal, not on what is external to me. So, basically, I control how I react or feel about something someone else does.
I've never written it out before, so I hope it's clear. Basically, I take power away from others to hurt or offend me. It helps me deal with conflict a lot better if I don't feel like someone else has the controls.
This line of thinking doesn't always work (PMS week), but it helps.
2006-12-16 04:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by LifesAMystery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one I say the most is: You should spend all your energy trying to be with someone or you should spend all your energy trying to get over someone, but going back and forth with someone is just a waste of energy emotionally.
2006-12-16 04:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always say women are ALWAYS wrong til proven right! but for rejection i would say que sera sera, whatever will be will be(it's a song, i thought you would be able to relate to that). so if u get rejected then it wasn't meant to be. that's how i would look at it.
2006-12-16 04:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by Your Worst Nightmare 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't meant to be! Move on, and think about all the eligible people out there. Hey good luck to ya!
2006-12-16 04:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"This too shall pass." It pretty much means that things will eventually get better, but they may suck in the process. Don't worry about it, keep your head held high and you'll get through it.
2006-12-16 04:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by Traveler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋