ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .
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when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone
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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message
hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!
<3 (name)
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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking
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this is the latest message i just got tonight
heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)
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19 minutes ago
she just sent me another email saying that she wants me to come to her birthday party . .. now why would she want me to come if he is going to be there . . . it would only cause trouble and be really awkward on top of that
2006-12-16 04:02:04 · 7 answers · asked by lbsf2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Block her emails and get on with your life. It sounds like she wants to keep you on the back burner...keep you hanging. She sounds like a fickle freak who doesn't know what she wants. Some girls get off on creating tension/fights between guys - it makes them feel important - worth fighting over. I say avoid the situation at all costs.
2006-12-16 04:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men always need to keep one thing in mind when dealing with us. (psst..We Are All Crazy) This girl is insecure. The guy she is with now probably isn't doing it for her. You were pursuing her after she dumped you, and when it didn't work you moved on, SHE Didn't. It had to make her feel good on some level to have you still wanting her. Now she's just ****** with your head. I doubt she is purposley doing this to be mean. She probably doesn't know what she Really wants at all. I don't what you are wanting now as far as a relationship with this girl but here's what I would do. You need to get in touch with her and ask her point blank what she wants from you. Tell her how you feel and stand firm. If she wants you back then she needs to cut ties with this other dude. You sound like a sensible guy to me, you can't help who you love and care about, but it might be easier if you just changed your phone number and let it go. Best of luck to you, I hope everything works out for ya.
2006-12-16 12:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by Troublejunction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she wants her cake and to eat it too. Do you want her back? if so tell her its all or nothing. I wouldnt call her back myself. Games are exhausting and Im just getting too damn old and cynical for them. If you want to play though.....shes certainly throwing the ball at you.
Obviously she has grown weary of him and is bored. I would ask myself what will happen and who will she be texting when she tires of you once again.
Wonder how she would respond if you started dating someone she hates? he he . Let the games begin! Now that would childish but could be devilishly fun! She would be throwing game at you like crazy and might get a better appreciation not to screw with you.
2006-12-16 12:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by chcknbizkit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she seems interested in you, yet shes still with that guy, right?if she really likes you, she'll leave him for you. if not, shes just stringing you along.
2006-12-16 12:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just wants to be friends again. i think you should answer one call and see what happens.
2006-12-16 12:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by iluvromey! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD LUCK!! tell her 2 stop stalking u
2006-12-16 12:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by westgxcfreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing head games with you
2006-12-16 12:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by lily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋