I am hot and sweet but most guys at my school go for my friend and I will just sit there when guys are all over her. I don't know every guy I like ends up being with her. I was told by guys am very hot and stuff and maybe my friend is hotter than me but she is not a nice person.I don't get why she is the one that always get the guys.I am starting to hate her at first I was like happy for her but its getting annoying. If I start acting not so swwet or nice then will the guys like me too.especially Ryan
2006-12-16 03:41:59 · 10 answers · asked by goody2shoe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about it the guy that is right for u will always pick u over her
2006-12-16 03:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Deleted 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are who you are and she is who she is, maybe together you are not such a good combination. Spend some time apart from her and let Ryan know you like him, so then Ryan and you can become friends on your own.
It looks like you and your girlfriend behave like it's some sort of competition to get guys attention.
In the end when you play stupid games like these you end up fighting with everyone. Let her do what she wants and find yourself your own activities that will be more suitable and perhaps a little more educational. Being hot and sweet is great, how about adding smart and mature to that list?
Good luck
Irene
2006-12-16 11:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is your friend more promiscuous? When I was in high school, I had the same problem with another friend. I was the one that guys just wanted as a friend, even though I was always told I was hot and sweet and caring, but they all went for her. She definitely would do a lot more with a guy than I would, and basically when she started being with a guy, she would make her life as his. She would give up everything she held close to her, and basically just did whatever he wanted. That is another reason guys were drawn to her, because she was so "moldable". Be yourself, and don't worry about guys now. Soon, the one that will seek YOU out, and not be interested in your friend...that is the one to wait for.
2006-12-16 11:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mia Anne *6.6.09* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maby there is a reason she keeps getting all the guys, like maby she puts out, maby shes easy, maby she is a s***. Most guys go for women they can get in the bed after two dates or less. I'm not saying your friend does that but just telling you what guys go for. Another explaination could be that your a bit jealous of her.
2006-12-16 11:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by ltonyasfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe their just saying so to get to her. There's an old belief that to get to the hot one, be nice to the not one. I don't know the details of course, but this is just a thought. Don't lose the friendship that you guys have got though.
2006-12-16 11:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sound like me.
always hidden behind the shadow of
my best friend.
but she treats all the guys like sh*t.
so they lose interest & finally start looking at me. :D
2006-12-16 11:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by lilbr0wnsuga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient. if youre pretty and you have a good personality and you dont try too hard, its only a matter of time before somebody likes you too.
2006-12-16 11:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u should stay the way u are! the guys will come.
2006-12-16 11:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by Wacking_Jerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is funny but if you spread rumor about your liberal behave boys will go around you soon.
2006-12-16 11:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by mukyon1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she is a bigger flirt! or maybe thay want her because they can't have her?
2006-12-16 11:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋