Isn't a man of any size still a man by heart? For example in the store I work at (which is a pretty big store) there are a couple of girls that work with me and 4 other guys, me and 2 other guys are 5'8" tall and below average looks the other two are 6'1" and 6'3" tall and above average looks, but the girls always talk to them more, when they go on coffee runs a coffee is only bought for them, not for me s. They are always laughing and talking to the big tall guys, but not us. It makes me feel worthless and angry towards those girls and is starting to make me feel like that towards all women. why are they like this favoritism?
2006-12-16 03:40:57 · 9 answers · asked by ann a 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
For the same reason men tend to pay more attention to women with bigger boobs.
2006-12-16 05:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sage Bluestorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I'm find taller and / or stronger looking men more attractive because they look as if the could protect me, I like to feel safe when wrapped up in my big mans arms. I have dated smaller men, 3 that I can remember they were all about 5'3 and 130 pounds and there size didn't really bother me, but when I'm dating men that are 5'9 and 180 pounds I feel a little safer. It may not make %100 sense and I know it's what's on the inside that counts. I wouldn't pick a 6 foot jerk over a 4 foot sweet heart. But when I use to go out on the town looking for men I was drawn to the taller/stronger looking men. In the end I married a med sized guy 5'9 and 150 pounds, he's slim but has great strong muscley arms. He's also a sweet heart and a hard worker. I know he loves me and wants to take good care of me and keep me safe. I know if your a smally guy thats not the answer you want but i thought I'd be honest and let you know what going though at least one womans head on this issue. I hope you find someone to love you who appreciates all you wonderfull qualities. Not all girls are looking for mr big.
2016-05-22 23:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"This know also, that in the last days, perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, traitors, heady, high minded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; having a form of Godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away" (2 Timothy 3:1-5)
This modern society in which we live has become very judgemental and lustful. You mentioned being short (for a guy) and having below average looks. As long as you let that discourage you, you never will find anyone attracted to you. There is someone for everyone. As most of the world has become exceedingly lustful, my advice is to look for a girl with an interest in a Christian religion. Religion teaches to not judge and frowns very severly on lustful tendencies before marriage. This, i feel, would put you on the same level as the jocks.
2006-12-16 03:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I saw a picture of you earlier (the one with the cowboy hat)...so you're not ugly. I would maybe recommend wearing heels and long pants (you can wear up to 3 inch heels...google them..."tall me shoes" or something like that....they make high heels for me) so that would make you 5'11 which is a great height! (almost 6 feet tall) and no girl would know that you are actually 5'8 unless you brough her home. Maybe go to the gym and lift some weights (not too much like those weirdos on the magazines..but enough to look manly....like the Abercrombie models)....and I would maybe dye my hair lighter...you look a lot like Johnny Depp so make it work!! :) good luck!!
2006-12-18 06:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is when the instinct kicks in. It may not at all be intentional, but women prefer men who can protect them. It's part of our survival instinct we've picked up over the past million years or so, lol. Woman gentle and caring, man strong and fit. Of course we do tend to sway off that path and fall for the shorter, or thinner, or scrawny types, as personality certainly plays a huge factor in the opinions of many women (like us; my husband's 2" shorter, lol, although I am 6').
2006-12-16 03:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by hayaa_bi_taqwa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evolution in action. All species seek out the most seek out the most attractive mate in hopes of propagating those genes. The best looking guy or the showiest male bird attracts the most potential mates.
2006-12-16 03:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not true of all women. Some of us are much more interested in an man's character than in his looks.
2006-12-16 06:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that you Seth Green?
2006-12-16 03:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by Red Foreman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in the wrong section.
2006-12-16 03:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋