um... well this guy i like has a gf and he wouldnt stop talkin about me to her on the phone. but my sis said that he was prolly just usin me to make her jealous.although i asked him about it and he is a very honest person and he said that he wasnt using me. we give eachother 4 hugs a day and write notes back and forth. we also email eachother and talk on the phone. hes alwayz worried about me if i sound sad or something and i think he likes me . i think its wrong that im crushin on this guy and he has a gf. What should i do?
2006-12-16 03:28:44 · 13 answers · asked by bella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really really want to be with him, you are sue that you really like him then do this.
1) Be the best friend that you can be to him
2) Flirt with him a little, but never admit to anyone that you really want to be anything other than a friend to him.
3) Very quickly the gf will get jealous
4) Repeat no. 2
5) His gf will put more and more pressure on him to not see you.
6) Be nice and say to him I like you a lot but she has no reason to be like this we are just friends
7) Repeat no. 2
8) She will get in a fight with him
9) He will be console by you
10) Repeat no 2. and the gently pash him
Don't think I'm bad but it really is that simple, just keep being his friend and she will dump herself. x
2006-12-16 03:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think that you need to be careful, because if he is trying to talk to you while he has a girlfriend then he might do the same to you when he gets you. Does his girlfriend know that he writes you notes, and gives you all of these hugs during the day? What would you do if you was his girlfriend and he started giving another girl all the attention hes giving you to her??? Think about how it would make you feel, plus if he wants to be with you what is the hold up. He should let her know instead of dragging her along.
2006-12-16 11:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not tryin' to be harsh, but it's wrong coz it's unfair for his gf, & it's called "cheating". If you're in the shoe of the girl, would you like that someone's flirting w/ him. Just try to imagine how it would ruin their relationship...Maybe you can have him if he had broke up w/ her, but NOT while their relationship is still on going, that's a sin!... I hope you understand and just make way. Besides, you can't have a secret relationship, any girl would want it to be "legal", in a way that you can show the world how much you love each other....Okay, wish you luck!
2006-12-16 11:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by 'd campus Hearthrob 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Whether or not he likes you, he's got a girlfriend already - he's off-limits. You wouldn't want him to cheat on YOU, right? So do yourself a favor and don't help him cheat on her. If he really likes you, he'll break up with this girl before he pursues you.
Be extra careful that he doesn't string BOTH of you along. Being the other woman sucks.
2006-12-16 11:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you wait for him to ask you. If he realy likes you so much (more than his gf), he is supposed to tell you and also break up with her.
He talks to his gf about you always - Wht for?. It boils down to arousing her jelousy. May be she has been really reserved lately or he feels she is trying to quit him.
As a woman, you should be hard to get - Never ask him out, Try always mentioning his relationship/gf in your conversation with him and see if he will open up. This will tell him you are interested in his relationship
HE SHOULD ASK YOU OUT, DONT ASSUME ANYTHIN. IT WILL GIVE YOU SOME WORRY.
2006-12-16 11:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by mail2chik 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have been in that siutation before and i'm in it right know what u should do is ask him say like i'm glad were friends but do u want to be more then friends and if he say yes then work it out cause he sound like he likes u !!! alot for doin thatmuch 4 u !!!!
2006-12-16 11:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by lesley b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he has a gf, make sure you dont interfere with it.you wouldnt want somebody to do the same with you. and if he talks to you like hes interested yet he still has a gf, what could you expect ? he could posibly do the same to you
2006-12-16 11:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you might not be able to help it if you caught feelings but don't forget he has a g/f. i think he does like you and he's making it known, either to make his g/f jealous or beacuse he wants to be with you. it's not right to indulge on these feelings while they are still together. and he needs to decide if he wants to be with you or her. maybe you two should talk about it.
2006-12-16 11:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by fac3d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, don't get into that.... those type of things are kinda dangerous... someone could find out and start something and then something else would happen that would allow his gf to find out and then everything would go down the damn toliet.
2006-12-16 11:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by Tsumi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
back off, he likes you, but he has a girlfriend, if he really likes you, he'll choose u, but don't think about dating him while he is still with his girl, that would make u a total slut.
2006-12-16 11:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley A 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋