I am 27. I have a boyfriend whom I've been with for 4 very happy years. Then we started having problems and then it happened, I fell completely and utterly in love with a new co-worker. He has moved back to his country a few weeks ago. All I feel is that I am hea dover heels for him, cannot explain why and I am so pissed that it has to be this way, why can't I just love my boyfriend??? So that guy has no feeings for me and I have to break up with my boyfriend because I do not love him anymore and my life will suck forever, loving to death someone who doesn't love me back. What do I do? Please help me with an advice, I am so unhappy!
2006-12-16 03:28:06 · 4 answers · asked by stargazer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grow up; this is what all of us goes thru every day. It’s not the end of the world, learn to appreciate what you have not what you don't...
2006-12-16 03:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have some great answers, so this is just my little adendum: If you think this guy was so much better than your boyfriend, I hope you break up with your boyfriend so you don't spend a lifetime together making him miserable and pay for not being the other guy. Being alone for a while may do you some good - you might get to find out what kind of person you are looking for instead of taking up with whoever is available.
2006-12-16 12:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to start life anew for in this world we experience ups and down in every aspect on life.Your co-worker is gone and have no feeling for you and you have to rebuild the fallen temples.Take it step by step and try to reconcile with you boyfriend.I believe for one to have a good love life, you have to really build it yourself and make it work.
2006-12-16 11:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by cajadman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This stuff isn't easy, and that sort of thing is going to happen. Don't obsess over things and drive yourself crazy. Try to salvage whatever you think is worth salvaging and move on. Life won't suck forever. Sheesh...
2006-12-16 11:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by 670000000mph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋