i went to our school dance the other nite and my boyfriend was there. He comes over and starts talkin to me. i told him that i wanted some time w/ my friend for a while, but he wouldn't leave me alone. Eventually he got mad cuz i wouldnt stop tellin him to give me a couple min. w/ my friend. then he walked away. i was gonna ask him if he wanted to dance and i find flirtin w/ a group of other girls!! every time i turned my back that nite he was flirtin w/ more girls! i told him i was pissed off at him and y and he didnt understand. then i told my friend to tell him that i was breaking up w/ him. he still didnt get y i was mad! now i dont no if we r still goin out or not and i really want to talk to him. i cant stop thinkin bout that nite and the more i think bout it the more i want to make sure that we r broken up for good! I dont no wat to do and any answers would be greatly appreciated.
2006-12-16 03:24:17 · 13 answers · asked by Sammy B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should speak to him directly to make sure he knows it's over. You'll feel better about it once you have closure.
He doesn't deserve you so move on girl!
2006-12-16 03:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by my2cents4ya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have made up your mind... you told him you were more interested in your friends than him so he found other entertainment. You need to understand you can not treat him like a puppy. He is a boy and has feelings too. If you don't want to be around him and you said you two were broken up then you are broken up. If you are not sure then just call him ask him and let him tell you. Your explanation sounds like you just want a puppy not a boyfriend.
2006-12-16 03:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you an dhim are playing games and that is not a relationship. I would find a guy that is understanding about me having my own space and not go to other girls and flirt with them to make you mad or jealous...that is just spoiling your fun out.
I think you would know if your broken up or not...does he call you? Do you still do things together? If not, then I would move on. Be happy enjoy your life.
2006-12-16 03:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by ariermagee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend doesnt seem liek a very good guy if he cant give you some alone time with friends, and after you asked he goes to flirt with other girls. He needs to get his priorities straightened out, and maybe even grow up.
If you asked your friend to break up with him for you, and they did, i would consider it a split. Dont worry hun, you can find someone better for you. Look for a guy that will do as you ask when it comes to things liek needing girl time, and one that diesnt flirt behind your back. goodluck <3
2006-12-16 03:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by xXLadYxOfxCarnagEXx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he should have been more understanding and given you time with your friend. after all,it's not all about him right?. he got mad and his feelings were hurt so he had to go hurt yours by flirting with other girls. you should talk face to face and let him know how he made you feel. and you should also decide if you really want to be broken up. talk things through and then decide what you ultimately want.
2006-12-16 03:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by fac3d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want all ur questions answered i would try calling himi on the phone and asking him why he was doing all of that and if he really still likes you like he said .. if he did... and explain to him that going and flirting with other girls wasnt really approite and all you wanted was a few mins... if you still like him after you talk to him then ask him what he really thinks about you two being together. and ask him if we are through or not...... good luck
2006-12-16 03:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by shorty_rdb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you need to stop acting like an immature little girl. if you wanted to break up with him, then you should have told him not have your friends do it for you. now if you want to know so bad then call him and talk to him. explain to him what made you mad and that you wanted to tell him your self that you no longer want to be with him.but i want to add that you were rude to him, i understand that you wanted to talk to your friend, but then when you decided that you wanted to make time for him, he was talking to other people. and then got mad because he was. sounds to me you have some growing up to do.also what do you consider flirting? was he talking and laughing with these girls? if so big deal. now if he were saying things to them like oh i would like to go out with you, or things like that, then yes that would be flirting.
2006-12-16 03:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl he needs to understand that you need your time with your friends, and even if he flirts a little that does not mean you should break up because these school dances always cause things to happen so i suggest that you talk to him and see what he really wants.
2006-12-16 03:31:29 · answer #8 · answered by Shauna-Kay H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell it to his face. That's the best way to go and if he still doesn't get it then that is his problem, not yours. You shouldn't put any guilt on yourself.
2006-12-16 03:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by Willow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your friend tell him? Well if so YOUR broken up........move on and enjoy life as it is waay to short anyhow!
2006-12-16 03:31:27 · answer #10 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋