i havent told both of them.and i dont know what to do!
my boyfriend might break up with me.
2006-12-16 02:11:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have feelling for another man and want to pursue a relationship with him it is best to take the high road, be honest with your current boyfriend and tell him that you respect him but need some space and think you should both see other people. If it doesn't work out with the new guy, you have allowed your ex to keep his dignity and not totally burned any bridges; if he cannot respect you for being honest with him then it is best to find out now. Being "dumped", while initially is a sting, hurts a lot less if the person has been honest with you and at least you can respect them.
2006-12-16 02:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would evaluate things with your current dude. Second i would take into account that although this dude maybe the hottest thing since the oven can he make you as happry as your current dude? If you go jumping ship everytime somebody like you then you will never have a relationship that lasts. Last but not least if your man gets mad because somebody has a crush or an infatuation with you then he really isn't worth it. He should take it as a compliment.
2006-12-16 02:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by sf_wicki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question at hand is wether you like the person who likes you more than your boyfriend. If you didn't have interest in the guy that likes you you wouldn't be asking this question. Think about who's company you will enjoy more and if you decide you like the guy who likes you finish it up with your boyfriend as soon as possible. Leading a guy on and pretending you like him is the worst that you can do. Good luck.
2006-12-16 02:15:13 · answer #3 · answered by imation223 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First go and tell the guy who likes you that you alredy have a boyfriend but you would think about it we could just be friends
2006-12-16 02:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by amrie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your boyfriend would get upset that someone likes you then he evidently don't love you like he says that he does! I think you should tell him that there is another guy that likes you! I also think that you should tell this guy that likes you that you have a boyfriend and if he really likes you then he will respect your wishes whether you want to stay with your boyfriend or go with him!
2006-12-16 02:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by brandibabe07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're so worried that your boyfriend might break up with you, then you probably should stay with him and forget about the other guy. But you should think about it carefully, the real question here is: What do YOU want?
2006-12-16 02:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by **BABY** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is thinking about breaking up with you. Then he doesn't love you.
You should just break up with him if thats the case. Because why waste your time with someone who doesn't love you?
If the other guy likes you a lot. And you see a future with him.... then... go out with him!
2006-12-16 02:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by emcintaggart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well someone else's feelings for you shouldn't matter. Its about your feelings. If you have feelings for the other person than you should break up with your boyfriend before you end up cheating on him and breaking his heart even more.
2006-12-16 02:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by jrtootsiepop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the person that likes you that you have a boyfriend and that you are happy with your boyfriend, but you will be friends with that person. Meanwhile, tell your boyfriend what's going on.
2006-12-16 02:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by stormy_nite1973 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like your boyfriend, then tell him that your taken
if you like that guy that told u he liked you then break up w/ your boyfriend
if you like them both then break up with your boyfriend but also dont be with the other boy, if you stayed with your boyfriend while you like another boy everything will be too messy
2006-12-16 02:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋