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Exchanged numbers with a dude at a temp workplace friday. He raved on about how lovely I am and is going to take me out on a date in the New Year.

After a mini bout of flirtatious texts on Friday, I have been ignored since.

In March he split from an engagement of three years and I'm the first one he's liked since...apparently.

Is it worth my energy of worrying about, or should I just ignore it. Or go with the flow? Ideas please everyone :) thankyou!

2006-12-16 02:06:44 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

29 answers

I can see where you are confussed about what is going on.Put a time limit to your waiting and keep your options open.If he contacts you shortly see what he says about why he waited so long to contact you...It could be that he is busy with the time of year...after all the holidays are right around the corner.
He might be a player and was checking to see if he still "has it" He might be the type that thinks the grass is always greener on the other side.
But also if you are talking in turms as Friday was yesterday well you can just be anxious...If it is in terms as last wk well he should of possibly contacted you by now.
You can always send him a short text or give a quick call and see if he responds.It may help you to decide if he is worth your time or not.

2006-12-16 02:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No way girl and 3 year engagement is almost like being married! Hes just out to have fun for now...hes not gonna wanna jump into something else as soon as he is single you know how men is! If he hasnt got back in touch then maybe hes flirting with the other girl he likes only too! My opinion i wouldnt go there just treat him the same ignore him! But if you like him and are willing to get hurt the go for it..but i dont think hes really lookin at this point hes just playin the field!

2006-12-16 10:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

He is not worth it. If he is as in to you as he says or portrays he would not wait until the new year to take you out. If you are the first girl he has been attracted to after such a long relationship I would not trust it. Right now he is all about sewing his wild oats and bragging rights. All that is going to mean for you is heart break. Do yourself a favor and pass on this guy.

2006-12-16 10:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by sf_wicki 1 · 0 0

Go with the flow and just support the guy, obviously he has just broken away from a long relationship. Be there for him as a friend in your heart and something else may bloom, sometimes taking your time in things works out for the better, play it cool!!

2006-12-16 10:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by insane_artiste 2 · 0 0

Know this: No guy is ever worth the trouble. There are far more important things to be worried about. Just go with the flow and live your life without pining for him.

2006-12-16 10:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I've recently just broken up with a girl who I'd been dating for 4 years so I can understand where he's coming from!

He may be playing you, but if he's feeling anything like me then he does like you but is afraid of being hurt again...

You should maybe text him the odd time even when he hasn't texted you. He probably just needs re-assurance as he's probably just frightened that if he lets you in then you'll hurt him.

Hope this helps!

2006-12-16 10:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by TheDovic 2 · 0 0

IGNORE !!!
This guy is really confused, and still has his ex on his mind, I ga-run-tee you. He's probably looking for some booty too. YOU are better than that. This situation is only going to lead to hurt. Besides, wouldn't you rather go out with our girlfriends on New Years? Who knows, you could meet a nice man who is ready to date, without as much baggage, and can focus his attention on you! Go out there and have fun!

2006-12-16 10:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by Marmontos 2 · 0 0

Just go with the flow. Don't turn down other opportunities for dates that might come along in the mean time and if that guy asks you out fine and if not fine; just don't wait around for him.

2006-12-16 10:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 3 · 1 0

Go with the flow he probably had a really good drinking session last night and is extreemly hung over trying to sleep it off

2006-12-16 10:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Have you texted him? He might be thinking the same thing about you. "She hasn't text me, she's probably not interested". He might also be really busy, especially this time of year.

Maybe just call him and go for a coffee and chat. See what happens and go with the flow.

Good luck!

2006-12-16 10:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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