ok, about a year ago, i really liked this guy. i thought he was perfect! then he said i was acting black and i need to stop cuz i ddnt belong. of coarse i told my friends(cuz i was cryin a little--dont laugh) and they attacked him!!! i really dont like him now cuz hes racist....grrrr...ntways, about a month ago, i started to like another guy...until yesterday when he told his little friend to tell me he doesnt like me cuz of the people i hang out with...i told my friends(cuz he was talkin bout them) and they attacked him....im glad my friends love me and are protective, but are they scaring off guys? or do i just have bad judgement? am i a blabbermouth? should i have just kept that stuff to myself?
2006-12-15 23:48:40 · 3 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that your friends are scaring guys off! That's the second guy that they beat up. And, I don't think that your're a blabbermouth, but I suggest what goes on between you and guys as far as relationships go, should be kept between you and him. Could it be that you're friends love you because you offer them a chance for violence? I suggest not involving friends when dealing with matters of the heart, no matter if you've just been dumped or not.
2006-12-16 00:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attacked them?...hmmm...Well if the guys have a problem you hanging out with black people (I suspect that your friends are black) I would not bother with those guys.
If however your friends are a rough and aggressive maybe you should tell them to chill (but I guess they will attack you then). I dunno I suspect the guys you date just don't like black people. I'm not saying ditch your friends but they can't go around attacking people.
In future in the early stages of a relationship find out what your intended thinks about black people....if he is negative then just say goodbye
2006-12-16 07:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by JadeNicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you're not a guy repellent, sounds like you're an asshole repellent. Your friends are looking out for your best interests maybe they can introduce you to a single they know.
2006-12-16 07:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋