I met her on trip with my best friend. We went for the weekend just to party. I got her # at a club and then blah blah . I left the US to canada to be with her. I got a place and made new friends through her. We got really comfortable with each other and our friends came over everyday. After a year she started giving me hints that she wasnt happy and i didnt make her feel special. She wanted a break and eventually told me that it was best if we broke up. We still see each other occasionally and she tells me she still loves me. she is trying to get into grad school and feels like having a relationship is her last priority.I didnt give her the attention she deserved and i didn't really make an effort to see her.she came over everyday to be with me. I told her i can change because i have realized how much i love her and need her. She feels like that i cant change. What should i do? If i cant be with her I just wanna move back to the US.I havent left because we didnt end it completely
2006-12-15 23:31:26 · 7 answers · asked by J Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have been together for a year and a few months. we been broken up for a month now. I am usually the one calling her and making plans with her. We text nice things to each other sometimes. She says she feels pressure to make a decision on getting back together just knowing im here. We still are intimate with each other when we see each other. sometimes i act crazy."waiting for her for 4 hours just to see her" I stopped that and realize i cant make things happen if doesnt happen naturally. But what can i do to improve my odds. I know i can meet girls and all but I dont really want anyone else. She is the one i feel makes me happy most. Mentally and physically. sometimes when we are together and she kisses me and lays in my arms, i feel it will work out for the better. But when she never calls me and show that she misses me, i feel like crap. maybe shes busy but whats 5 mins. on the phone to say wassup and how u doin.I like hearing what u all have to say. thanks cuz its helpful
2006-12-16 18:12:52 · update #1
Well, it seems as if she can't handle a relationship that means alot to her while dealing with grad school. She might also be just sorting out her feelings. Love is a very strong,intense,emotional rollercoaster when it's the real thing. Sometimes our truest loves even soulmates, are destined to come i our lives only to leave. At least you can say that you had the experience of loving someone and being loved back. Alot of people are too blind to give love a chance!!
2006-12-15 23:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by Dawn F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love her and she doesn't love you. Get that through your thick skull. If you love her and she loves you, you would still be together. Don't be such a pu*ssy. Leave. Meet other women. Go out on dates. Enjoy life. Why the hell are you so hung up on a woman who made you move and then dumped you?!?! Grow some balls. Be a man. Dump the biatch and end it now.
The only reason that you're miserable is because of your indecision. You don't love her and she does not love you. Get that through your head. You are delusional.
2006-12-16 07:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her and you know she loves you. Then you will do whatever it takes to show her you have changed. It wont just happen in a hour or so, not even a day or 2. I could takes months to show her you have changed. Dont tell her you can change or you have changed, Show Her. If you love her like you say you do you will stay up there and do whatever it takes to prove your love to her.
2006-12-16 07:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by Nick_L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and prove to her how serious you are about getting her back. Do some really romantic things for her, things you havent done before. surprise her, see how she reacts. put in a hell of a lot of effort. its gonna take alot more than just words telling her you will change. you need to show her.
2006-12-16 07:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by HoneyZ2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you left u.s. to canada to be with her is one strong reason/proof that you loved her, don't say you didn't give her attention, you went to her country! you must accept things and don't defend her, you didn't give her attention? come on, you went to her country to be with her.
2006-12-16 07:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go home.
There is no making her happy.
Lots of women here. ;-)
2006-12-16 07:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she ignores you and youve tried all i can say is welcome to the US
2006-12-16 07:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfbane Dragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋