i feel like im weird, i am not like a normal 15 yr old. i hate parties and alcohol and popularity and boobs!?

Question

i dont think im boring, im creative with music, art drama but i want to be young and i hate it when girls obsess over guys and makeup and popularity. i care about boys and looking nice too but everyone seems so conceited and air headed. how do i find friends like me?

Answer 1

Well lets see first of all you are NOT weird. It sounds like you are in high school and believe me i know cuz high school sucks while you're in it. Don't worry about what other people think or do jus do you. At the age you are at boys are idiots anyway. And yes sometimes high school can turn into one big dumb @ss fashion show and high school is all about the drama once you have graduated and moved on to bigger and better things which it sounds like you will you wll see that as long as you always stay true to yourself and the ones that care about you, you will always be a better person for it.

Answer 2

I don't think you sound weird at all. You do sound like you have had a sucky week or two and a lot like you have creative talents that are wasted in environment that you are in.
It would be really good if there is a school that is more about the arts that you could go to, even if it is across town.
I was never about the party drinking thing, and at my school and my year that really meant you had no friends. My year was full of pretentious jerks, I was saved by meeting kids in the grade below and above at a local drama club, then the most gorgeous girl in the world moved into town and shared my thoughts on the kids in our year.
Focus on your passions try not to let people get you down seek out people and places that love the arts and things will gradually feel better. x

Answer 3

I'm 29, a guy, and still not popular. :-) At about the age of 13, through some great help from a close friend and his mother, I came to realize that being popular and obsessing over such things were a complete and total waste of my time, and I started to focus on who I wanted to be, and not on who I thought I wanted to be. The more you are true to yourself, the more true friends you will find for yourself and the more the right kind of people will be attracted to you. I haven't found the right kind of person yet, but frankly, I also haven't gone looking. I've only just started now. With patience and persistance, you'll find the right guy for you, but it probably won't happen right away. Have faith, keep looking, and you'll know the right time to say yes when the time comes. Don't rush it. Mister Right, or simply good friends, will come eventually for you.

Answer 4

Oh my god!!! You sound like my son...he was and is exactly the same...be proud of yourself...alcohol, parties, boobs etc does not equal being young. I think you have a bright future if you can be so level headed.

My son never went with the crowd, he would stand back and watch people. Eventually he made some great friends. Watch out for people like you with similar interests. Join clubs in school...you will find friends there...GOOD LUCK

Answer 5

you sound so like me when i was your age. okay! first off, congrats with being very artistic! it's one thing i do admire in many people is when they use artistic means of expression to get their points across. thing is, girls these days are just the same with girls back in my school when i was growing up. it is hard to deal with that sometimes because we, the "quiet ones", tend to focus on other things rather than pose in front of a mirror and think boys are the world. truth is, you're not weird. there are many people out there. you usually are surrounded with like-minded people, you just have to find where they are. they could be anywhere - in the library, in a band class, in an art class. open your eyes and see. they could even be in different groups in school that you never thought about. what you should do is talk to different people and see what they like. you may find friends who are into the same things as you. just go out and talk.

Answer 6

well i think it looks like you just found a new friend and thats me......... you yourself might not be aware of the fatct that dozens of people around you share the same interests as yours...i mean i also have the exact same feeling,it also depends if you are a boy or a girl but if you be yourself the in no time you will find yourself as a very different person and a true one...take care.chill and plz dont worry!!

Answer 7

I was the same way in school, and now, at 23, I am still trying to fit in. The people I try to make friends with all invite me to bars, and I feel ashamed at times because it is not my thing. I don't drink, or party. So I try to find friends doing the same things as me, taking their children to the park and such. It is very hard, but all I can say is that when you are not trying to fit in, you may not, but to me, that HAS to be okay..

Answer 8

At 15 you should hate alcohol and parties. If you mean that kind of party. I don't know about the boobs part. If you are a male you are still young and that doesn't mean you will always hate them. If you are a female, you either hate them because you are flat chested or because you are over endowed. This you may need counselling about.
You are still young and you will change very much in the next few years. Stay sweet and if you really are confused as for professional help.

Answer 9

You are not weird; you just stand up for you beliefs and do not follow the trends which will make you who you do not want to be. Stand by your beliefs and find those with similar beliefs and morals and you will connect as life long friends.

Answer 10

try finding people who share your interests and make friends with them. it's so easy, especially nowadays, when there are tons of ways to fid new friends. just be confident and things will turn out just fine. remember, you don't have to be like everyone else.