I havent been with my guy for that long but this week we went out to two work functions of his and i was supposed to be going to his place tomorrow. I couldnt get in touch with him today...And i wasnt obsessive about it i only text him twice all day and tried to speak to him on the net but he was busy...But while i was on the net talking to a friend he came on and said that tomorrow wasnt a good idea because he was sick. Im working all next week and when he was going he said see you about which he's never said he's always made definate plans. I am being paranoid to think that he is blowing me off already and that i should give him a chance or am i justified in my thinking? Its just ive been hurt in the past and i do like this one so i dont want to ruin things
2006-12-15 23:02:11 · 6 answers · asked by dragonfly_princess_72 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is never too early for a bloke to start lying. At times when a male wins you over he immediately starts to lose interest...thrill of the chase and all that.
There again he may be telling the truth. I have a very good suggestion....don't wait to find out. Hopefully you are not too emotionally involved. Always follow your instincts...a woman's intuition is amazing and very accurate.
I was suspicious of my ex and I kept saying to myself that I was being paranoid. It turns out he was up to every dirty deed I suspected him of and more. How did I find out. He was a bouncer and had sex with a woman in the club toilet....she then accused him of rape. I should have followed my instincts.
Obviously there is no comparison, but my point is this dude I was dating began lying to me even before we started dating...I find this out years later when he decides to confess all.
I would certainly back off and stop calling him...let him contact you. If he does give him the run around...take back control...you should be enjoying the relationship at this stage. Truly you deserve to be courted, wined and dinned not given idiot excuses.
If your gut ever tells you something is wrong...it probably is....GOOD LUCK
2006-12-15 23:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by JadeNicole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey girl being paranoid can ruine your relatioship and as soon as u continue that attitude and bcme worst it may lead to paranoia and it might be a psychological problem. i , as a new mother of my 1st son ive already experienced all of the problems that u had and maybe ur experiences is just as half as mine...
so dont bother urself a lot, just try to listen to his side and confront him if he does...open talks can make ur relationship good by asking him in a nice way but if u feel something different
u can still know what he is doin' by simply trying to be an investigator....we should always remember that we cant own a person like our own dress or any material thing...people come and go so better be ready and learn to accept what will happen we were born in this world without anybody except for our own family so better love urself first b4 goin' to any other relationships!!!
2006-12-15 23:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by liezel aileen s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be paranoid but don't let him take advantage. If you don't feel right about the situation then maybe you should trust your instincts.
2006-12-15 23:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jim C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance.
2006-12-15 23:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always listen to your intution. Where there is smoke, there is often fire.
2006-12-15 23:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by Joe C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is the needs of prayer
2006-12-15 23:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by jossy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋