my bf is moving into his new house with his mate xmas eve, i live at home with my dad and his gf and i hate livin there, all they do is shout, i was hopin to move in with my bf as i was pregnant fe weeks ago and that was the plan, and his mate was goin to move out, now ive had a miscarriage and i just feel so so lost, i am in a job that i dont want to do as i have to wait 3 years until i am a qualified beauty therapist. i do have some friends, but alot at uni and i dont feel i have very close friends, whereas my bf has loads, and a very busy happy life, he had a great childhood, i had very bad 1, i dont talk to my mum n things r quite bad with my brothers as they r in trouble with police etc. i just want to b happy but find it hard as i dont feel i have anything good in my life, i need sum advice!!
2006-12-15 22:56:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
change is always difficult but big risks can equal big benefits
don't be afraid
2006-12-15 23:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear fren...i guess ur facing too many problems at the same time ..due to which ur quite depressed but u should know such things are happening to all people around u .... so wht i suggest u is make ur mind relaxed ... do the things like the way you used to do ... and think for the solution of the problem in a particular time ...i.e don't think about the problem whole day .... n talk frankly about the solution of the problem with ur bf and ur mom .... ....and accept all the things around u instead of cursing ... be practical don't get too emotional ... try to enjoy even the small joys , success and happiness ... and then u'll surely have a gud time and gud life ....
2006-12-15 23:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by avi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to Beauty School. Try not to measure yourself against your boyfriend- you are just going through a slump right now. But rise above it- whatever. I'm older, and I learned to stay on the straight and narrow path. Find something, outside of school that you like- go have some fun. Maybe there's someone in your class you like- and the two of you get together for a movie, out to eat. Try talking to your mom, she may have her hands FULL of your brothers and their POLICE Trouble., but she may have a minute to share a Happy Time, (making cookies together, bring out old pictures of the family).
2006-12-15 23:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What causes both of you to have the argument? I think you feel horrible not bcoz you have a quarrel with your bf but all the bad thing happens to you at the same time and your bf is not there to give you any helping hand.
You need to think positively first but it is always easier to say than to be done but I believe you can do it.
2006-12-15 23:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry for that life you lived but you got through it and its not up to your boyfriend for your happiness its up to you and if things aren't going as planned with him then move on and hopefully you can get out of your dads house into a place you are happy you have your whole life ahead of you and don't feel so down it will get better
2006-12-15 23:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by nazwats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should see a therapist to help you out of your depression. i'm really sorry you are feeling this way.
2006-12-15 22:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by HoneyZ2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried going to church??? That might help you.
2006-12-15 23:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel... he's not the one... then dump him.
2006-12-15 22:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by babyyocca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋