I"ve never been married and i don't intend to...at least not now...i'm too young and i'm independent...I don't like others telling me what to do.ALso,i think that marriges are obsolete.What do u think?
2006-12-15 22:42:34 · 18 answers · asked by n 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, i might say i don't...but only if we're talking about tradditional wedding (u know, church, white dress, and stuff). Nowadays, gilrs can work, make their own money, have their independence... I think we can also choose not to be stuck in a situation forever, just because you signed on a paper or something. I believe in being with someone, live together, with no chains to make u be there... U WANT to be there, because u love ur bf (or gf). At the moment it goes wrong, u r free to go.
Actually, i call it marriage too, that's the kind of marriage i believe...
2006-12-15 23:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by Brazil_28 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 20:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES I DO BELIEVE IN MARRIAGE.
Been married 36 1/2 years.You don't loose your independence and you are not told what to do.Who told you these things? Is this the way your parents live there lives? If so, they were living there marriage all wrong. It is a 50/50 way. And marriage is not OBSOLETE. Only with the rich and famous. SPOILED BRATS.
2006-12-15 23:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I kind of agree with you. I don't see a big need for me to be married. It does seem a little outdated, but I could see me doing it someday, just not too soon. There's a gazillion people in this world and to say there's only one person for the rest of my life seems a little ignorant. It is very nice to be able to move around and do what I want, when I want to, without having to check with someone else all the time.
2006-12-15 22:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by Nc Jay 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believed in Marriage once.....was Married for 10 yrs....now divorced for almost 4 yrs.
I dont think I will do it again....but I dont think it is all that bad either....just not something I want to try again....
I have an aunt who has been with her bf for 25 yrs..they have 2 kids together....& 3 grandkids....& have been TOTALLY happy with each other.....they got engaged once & was totally miserable.....but once the engagement was off...they were happy again....they have lived together for 23 yrs....
I guess it just depends on the couple...
2006-12-15 22:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by mysticfairy74 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe in marriage. But it doesn't necessarily mean that it applies to everyone.
If you don't believe in it, then that's okay. But I don't think it's obsolete.
If ever you somehow end up in one, just remember that being married isn't just falling in love and tying the knot. It's a commitment that you are responsible for to make sacrifices and decisions to make things work.
2006-12-15 22:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by spygirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No marriages are not obsolete but the in thing.its like a game of cards. you never know what is in store for you.think positive ,choose well. in a marriage you can be independent, depends on your attitude towards life.
2006-12-15 22:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
! marriages r most important thing of human being !
neither man nor woman is perfect thats y our elders start a system for giving them a change to being perfect thats all called marriage. when man n woman meet n living together n helping each other in happyness, sorrow, laugh, love, sex, intimacy, children, financial matters, social prestige n gethering, many more acts. this is a system when 2 immperfect people meet n get benifit of perfaction with help of each other.
2006-12-15 22:55:31 · answer #8 · answered by forplay_afterplay 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Marriage is what you make it. If you think that it is horrible and obsolete it will be. Honestly everything in life is what you make but believe me one day you will find that one guy that you love more than anything in this world because I did. Yes its gonna be hard at first but if you two are trully in love and love each other you'll make it work.
2006-12-15 22:51:53 · answer #9 · answered by Mickey 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should not allow your rebellion to displace what makes sense. Marriage is not for everyone, but it is certainly not obsolete and is a necessary and important institution.
When I say that marriage is not for everyone, it refers to people who want to live a single, but celibate life, and that is not to be construed as liberals would think - that people should "live together," while not being married. That is insane liberalism.
2006-12-15 22:45:08 · answer #10 · answered by Joe C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋