i know time heals .but what do you do with yourself to ease the pain whilst you wait for time to work its magic?
2006-12-15 22:39:53 · 13 answers · asked by marysunshine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Asprin.
2006-12-15 23:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might sound ridiculous, but REPLACE HIM. I know well the heartache, after a relationship ended but a very good tip is to start dating, going out meet new people, try to capture some of the happiness you feel you have lost.
It doesn't have to be anything serious, just fun and I promise you will feel better and more positive that you can get over your Ex, and find love again..........................
There are millions of people in the world, you will absolutely find happiness and love soon!!!!
best of luck x
2006-12-16 11:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Rio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't exactly say that my situation is the same, but it sure does feel like heartache. i'm married and have been for almost a year. my husband is currently deployed in iraq which will last between 12 to 18 months. as i said, the situations are different, but it is a similar feeling. the best thing to do is busy yourself, but keep yourself in check. stay focused on the things you need to do, but always keep your emotions in thought. meaning, swim in them a bit. do a bit of a self check and realize what is good in your life. it may be dark now and the pain bad, but things will clear in the end.
2006-12-16 07:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by Shakti Svātantrya Isa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to talk to the person whom you get the heartache. its true (time heals) memory forgets, but your unconscious brain is still recorded the bad thoughts you have -and it gives pressure to the blood flow thus not letting you mind grow healthy as you should be.YOU NEED CLOSURE (make it satisfactory to your unconscious brain).
discuss it with that person your grudges or pain that the relatioship has caused you. have to think and protect your feelings. don't focus on the other feelings-HEAL YOURSELF, POUR EVRYTHING OUT in order to move forward.
That's the only time you'll get the magic.
2006-12-16 06:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending how deep you were hurt you may just need a little time to heal but if not then go out with friends to clubs or movies and enjoy yourself
2006-12-16 06:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by nazwats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over a man is to get under a man.
2006-12-16 06:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put on some solemn music and reminisce your beautiful times together and make at least 101 wishes about you and your lover with 1 being the smallest and 101 the biggest
2006-12-16 06:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
have fun, forget about him/her, kiss other people, spend quality time with your friends and family, get a new hobby, make urself hotter than u already are so when you see your ex they look good and they want u back.
2006-12-16 06:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone better to hang out with and go on dates with!it really will take ur mind off the horrible stuff going on
2006-12-16 07:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its tough,but there is no other way out dear,meanwhile try meditation, deep breathing and vigorous exercises.
2006-12-16 06:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋