once a cheater always a cheater?
2006-12-15 22:12:40 · 16 answers · asked by It's Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe that cheating isnt right....but also that in some cases....it can be worked through...
It will take some time to get the trust back...but I dont believe that just because it happened once..it will happen again....
NOW, if it is constant cheating...then there is a problem...take a look at what that person feels like they are lacking....sometimes...they only cheat because they feel like they are not getting enough attention...or sometimes they cheat because they feel smothered.....it just depends..
I dated someone once, who cheated on me....we were going through a bad time together...& I stopped calling him...he assumed we were over, but I had just happened to call the day AFTER he cheated on me & apologized for not wanting to talk....we were able to work things out & he didnt cheat again...
Sadly, I walked away again...this time to move....he was supposed to follow me, but was killed in a car accident before we could be together again....One of the few regrets in my life...
2006-12-15 22:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by mysticfairy74 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-12-16 06:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...90% of the time.
The remaining 10% could have been a mistake when lust was more powerful than the brain. But that is only valid if it was a one time thing.
2006-12-16 06:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by Aussies-Online 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't believe that. Cheating is something we adopt along the way and for a certain reason i.e, to satisfy one of our needs. If a person sets his/her mind to it they can transform to better people.most cheating e.g in relationships only happens at a certain age.
2006-12-16 06:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I don't believe that I feel if you meet someone that you is totally into and you want have a reason to cheat on them and that trust can be build up with that person and they would only see that person in which they like alot
2006-12-16 06:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by nazwats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-12-16 06:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, people do change. What I do believe is that once you lose someone trust it's almost impossible to get it back.
2006-12-16 06:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jim C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people can actually change it just depends on the reason and the situations ask yourself why the person cheated so no i don't believe that
2006-12-16 06:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by devildog_3025 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mostly but 70 perecent of people do it at leas t once in there life time
2006-12-16 06:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by jac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But if you like him you can change him.
2006-12-16 06:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by rockylike007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋